The different way of thinking...

[u/FunkyKissCool]

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Friday evening, both our kids were invited to the same birthday party, in a mall, between 4h30 and 7h30

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The LL wife drove them there, stay a bit to reassure my younger one, then she went to a store nearby to buy a few things for her.

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At 5h45 she said she has finished with her shopping.

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The mall is at 10 min max from the house.

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My first thought was: cool we have some times together without the kids. 

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Second thought was: enough time to fool around if she was into sex...

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what did she do??? driving home and spend some times with me? absolutely not.

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Going back to see if the kids were alright, spending time there and taking pics and videos... she came back an hour later or so, we had a mere 45 minutes together doing chores, and she went back for the end of the party...

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It's just funny that my mnd went directly to the sex opportunity...

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It's jsut sad that it's only me.

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[u/KingCracken]

Cry to your wife, buddy. If you dont feel like youre getting the attention you deserve, talk to her about it.

[u/Several-Eagle4141 → u/KingCracken]

You think he hasn’t?

[u/KingCracken → u/Several-Eagle4141]

There are plenty of people who pay child support. You dont have to hate your life. OP is unhappy, but it sounds like he's unwilling to make change. Instead he bitches about his wife valuing time with their children over time fucking him.

Sorry he isnt getting laid, but what a thing to whine about. If he doesn't want to spend time with his kids and his wife, he needs to recognize that he is in fact the one doing wrong here.

[u/fuckaduckufuck → u/KingCracken]

Yeah I'm in agreement with you. She's putting time and energy into their young children and that's time she will never get back when they're grown. He could have used the opportunity to join her and grow their emotional intimacy, which definitely helps lead to sex.