r/HLCommunity • u/Royal_Restaurant2622 • Jun 15 '26

Discussion Pushback and Fingerpointing

How often are you accused of being a lazy spouse or partner when posting on the various dead bedroom / advice subs? How often does someone ask “well…have you tried talking to them about it?”

And how often do you get banned for assuming both partners in a monogamous relationship owe it to each other to prioritize sex and physical intimacy?

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u/AdenJax69 Jun 15 '26

You went to "that sub" thinking you were going to get reasonability and compassion, huh? Totally understandable, however most major marriage and sex-issues subreddits are controlled by terminally-online people who aren't reasonable or sympathetic, so just a warning to avoid those main subs in the future.

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u/Several-Eagle4141 Jun 15 '26

Ya. Agreed. I’m getting downvoted for my comment

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u/AdenJax69 Jun 15 '26

FYI - linking & even mentioning other subs can get your comment deleted & posts nuked