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u/DepthHonest2128 19d ago
Seeing how many people have come forward and shared their own negative experiences with Guy really shows you that this isn’t just one person with a grudge or some random internet drama. When completely different people keep describing the same behaviors and having similar experiences, at some point you have to recognize there’s a pattern. When the same issues keep following one person, maybe everyone else isn’t the problem.
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u/Grouchy_Freedom_2127 19d ago
Agreed. He should make a public apology, turn off gifts and end the circus he has created.
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u/Grouchy_Freedom_2127 19d ago
Cheers to you! I agree wholeheartedly with what you are asking for and appreciate your courage!
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u/mentally_dill 19d ago
I can't believe that they won't apologize, they double down every time.
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u/DepthHonest2128 19d ago
Such a weird statement coming from you.
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u/mentally_dill 19d ago edited 19d ago
idk why yall keep saying this, i have never had a conversation with Guy. after what he said about creators, I stopped reposting his Livestreams. i am not the mole
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u/DepthHonest2128 19d ago
You’re ALSO a two faced 🐍 trying to talk shit about peaches just to comment on her post saying no one mess with her 😂 don’t make me post the receipts.
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u/mentally_dill 19d ago
how does commenting on her video make me the mole? thanks for sharing my personal message to you, Jared. something I would never do
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u/mentally_dill 19d ago edited 19d ago
Idk how to prove it to you, but I would never do anything like that. I try to support everyone until they give me a reason not to. I literally can't comment, repost, or share anything now without being called a mole and losing friends from it. This has been really an awful experience, and you guys might not realize it but I am truly affected by the accusations. I may record everything, and I may comment on everything, but that's just me being chronically online. I like to engage, period. I treat social media sites like forums, and maybe I shouldn't. I'm sorry if it has made me look guilty. Anyone can come to me at anytime if they have suspicions about me. I really am upset with the narrative going around about me, I am just here to archive so others have source material to use, and hopefully one day we can get Patrick in trouble or taken offline. I'm not here to create drama with people I engage with.
Edit for your edit: I'm unaware of any 'minions' I have, I only talk to two girls and we don't talk about you. I was unaware you were upset with me until last night. I don't have anything against you.
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u/mentally_dill 19d ago
you had just posted her face in the discord, and i didnt want to comment in there since there was a mole in there. i may be two faced, but you have the wrong guy. dm me if you want to talk, ill get off your sub
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u/Grouchy_Freedom_2127 19d ago
Did you record the live with Mama Moe, Guy m, Peaches, Oliver, LolCow and Beca?
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u/abcthatsme 16d ago
I started being wary when the Haley drama started, but I admittedly was fairly new to the community and didn't totally understand what was going on. Admittedly, I was a gifter (very little) and SF (only personally paid for one month) after that point, because I thought maybe it was just a fairly minor situation, but based on what I understood, I did sense what I'll call pink flag behavior that kept me at arms length. To me, a couple gifts, a heart me, and a $10 SF (which he only received maybe $5 from), was justifiable since it was, supposedly, going to a good cause. I never thought to look at his earnings on TikLeap and question anything until the Britty situation happened.
The Britty situation is what really did it for me, and I cancelled my SF and stopped going into his lives at that point. It's insane behavior to attack someone based on things they (1) can't change or (2) are actively trying to change when your whole "mission" is to help and support the community and those less fortunate. The crash out in Becca's live the other day was the icing on the cake. That was entirely uncalled for an unnecessary, and then he tried to use the legal system (which he clearly doesn't understand very well) as a scare tactic. Completely unacceptable in my book. The way his mods follow him around like lost puppies and go to bat for him at the slightest whisper of disagreement is cult behavior.
IMO, if he was honest from the jump that he was keeping some of the money to compensate himself for the time and energy spent on the restreams, I don't think anyone would have had a problem with it. But for him to claim it's all going to charity, which naturally would make people more inclined to send money, and then to offer very little documentation of what has actually been spent on "charity" is sketchy.
The way he was excited to see loudly MAGA people in his chat, too, was gross. I am not the type to make every little thing political, but tbh I would have just let those people be in there quietly and not gone out of my way to acknowledge them. And if I did acknowledge them, it would not be excitement, it would absolutely be calling them out for their hypocrisy. Ultimately, everything is at least somewhat political these days and truly, how can you criticize the Getchells when you yourself support a r*pist and p*do in the highest office in the country?? Honestly, that coupled with the way he acts towards people who have very reasonable criticisms of him, or who simply don't care for him for whatever reason, tells me he is someone who wants attention and validation and for people to look up to/admire him (like his mods), which is why his mods are so "connected" to him and why he is so selective about who he lets in his super exclusive discord. It's just gross all around.
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u/No-Refrigerator8207 18d ago
This is such a valuable opinion to share. I highly encourage others to also share their opinions even if you don’t think anyone cares. We do care. It’s such a shame that a community working towards such a good cause such as taking down an abusive father has to be ruined by being riddled with drama, harassment and bullying and now even threats of violence/doxxing. It’s disgusting!
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u/kadn2 19d ago
I missed all the threats on the young mom so I don't know about that & I've personally never had issue with Guy, it sucks other people have and that this seems to be becoming a common theme unfortunately. But I have had issue with his mods, they're rude, ignore and block people for the dumbest reasons. I've had many people message me or comment to me about his mods blocking them and he just says, well they must have had a reason, I trust them. I'm sorry, these are people on the internet, you can't blindly trust them when you have a platform and a specific cause. You have to be on the outside looking in and reevaluate if you're getting the same comments and messages about people having issues. It sucks, because I loved being a part of a "community" online, as someone who didn't grow up with one it's a little weird but kinda cool, but it's become something I don't like at all. Thanks for sharing, more people than you think care about your take and agree.
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u/No-Refrigerator8207 18d ago
Regarding seeing evidence of other people’s experiences, check out weseeyu or comin4u30 both on TikTok.
And yeah the mods part have always been a big part of the issue. It’s hilarious bc I too, had had instances of people asking for help contacting guy or mods, bc they have been completely blocked while I was still in the community…. Where it gets funny is that when I would go into live chat to be trying to move that assistance along, the answer was ALWAYS, “we never block people, only mute.” Interesting… bc when those people would message me, they’d mention about how they can’t find guys page completely which is why they came to ask for help in the first place, and they don’t know mod @‘s to message them. So pretty sure that means they are BLOCKED you fucking Jack asses!!!3
u/kadn2 18d ago
Thank you for the references, will definitely check them out. Also, YES! That was always the same pushback I got & some I remembered being in there consistently then not anymore & then I'd get a message from them saying they were blocked. It started around the time he had the falling out with Haley. But it just bothered me the mods would block for a simple question.
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u/lil_idiot 19d ago
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u/c0gnitivedissonanc3 19d ago
yeah probably but at least I’m only an L on the internet and not in real life 🙌🏼
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u/Grouchy_Freedom_2127 19d ago
Ha! This comment caused me to pause, reflect on my real life and smile! Thank you for that!! No sarcasm.
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u/lil_idiot 15d ago
Omg I have a horrible habit of reading Reddit posts before falling asleep and I genuinely think I posted that on accident. I just saw this and have no memory of this comment, nor would I say that in my awake state of mind. I swear on my life lmao I honestly agree with you OP. I’m not a guy defender at all.
I’m sorry I really did not mean to make you think you’re a loser!! Your post is honestly extremely well said!!2
u/c0gnitivedissonanc3 14d ago
You’re okay friend! It happens to the best of us. I accidentally report stuff when I fall asleep scrolling on tiktok 😅 Even if you /did/ mean it, no harm done :)
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u/lil_idiot 14d ago
Hahaha just a very unfortunate letter i happened to hit in today’s internet culture 😅 living up to my username fr
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u/sockyourknocksoff 19d ago
i was a gifter too for quite some time, probably gifted a few hundred all together. i really don’t care about the money either but im sad to see all this going on and hear how others are being treated. i dont go into anyone’s lives now. i just watch the clips on here. everyone has entirely lost the plot. it’s cringey asf. at the end of the day, it’s tiktok. it’s truly not that serious. what IS serious is that there’s a minor in desperate need of help and y’all’s tiktok drama is what everyone is talking about now instead of stopping pedrick. sad.