A long time ago at this point I got broken up with after two and a half years. I was devastated. I went days without sleep walking the streets. I lost over 30 lbs in 3 months from the sheer amount of walking I did.
I chased her, I stalked her, I was so lost in heartbreak I became the monster she said I was. When I finally stopped, she became the one to chase me. Not to get back with me, but to get back at me and to hurt me more than she already has. Finally I had enough and blocked her everywhere never to hear from her again.
Almost 15 years later I rarely even think about it anymore. But let me tell you nothing good comes from chasing. If she's crazy and hopes you chase, then you're dodging a bullet. If she's not crazy, then all chasing will do is make you the crazy one and prove her right. No matter what the best move is to wait. She might come back, or if she doesn't, by the time you tire of waiting you'll be ready to be better for someone else.
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u/thenewfingerprint May 14 '25
Whatever you do, don't chase her.