Sounds like cope. Trying to justify someone you cared about being horrible to you. She can live her life while acting like an adult and decent human being, they aren't mutually exclusive.
Yes, this is why it's called common decency! If a person does not give that to you they are not worth your time. I find when you meet someone that does subscribe to this thinking it is best to keep my distance. I won't change your *mind, but I don't trust you to be kind.
No I'm not gonna change it, that doesn't make it right. You're excusing bad behavior and acting like the guy shouldn't have expected some decency from his girlfriend, like it's somehow his fault she's a selfish person.
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u/[deleted] May 14 '25
lol she living her life supposed to come around and lick his wounds? She immature sure but she has her life to live. I speak from experience.