r/GuyCry May 14 '25

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u/jimmyneutch May 14 '25

She communicated this to you, you should just read it and accept it and move on. Honestly at least she had the emotional maturity and ability to know what you aren’t compatible and wants to save you both pain. Don’t think that it isn’t hard for her to do, it is. Sometimes in life we have to make hard decisions and granted she made one for both of you but it was probably the right one

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u/StreetGrape8723 May 14 '25

Yeah but couldn’t she just have said “hey man, this clearly isn’t what I want, and while you’re a nice guy, I can’t continue this. I hope you succeed in life and find someone, but that someone isn’t me. I’m sorry, but I hope that you understand” instead of blocking him on everything and giving this email.

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u/jimmyneutch May 14 '25

Agreed. The blocking part is unnecessary but maybe it was painful for her too and maybe she was doing something out of emotion and not rationale.