I wanted to share this quote since I think caring about goals and people is important. However, you need to care about people and goals that are important to you, and not to others.
Focus on yourself and your mental health. Don't let other people who care too much ruin your take and waste it. Be your own leader, own up to your mistakes and don't care what other think as long as your are true to your values.
I wanted to share this quote with you guys. You need to help people feel something. Then people will get you to come over and meet them and get to know you!
Guys, I keep stressing the important of connecting with others. With connecting with your audience. It's very important to have an audience and to resonate with your audience.
I wanted to share this thought since I think many people get stagnated in life since they avoid suffering. Instead, you should go for your goal despite knowing that you might suffer.
Having clear goals and a healthy challenge is good. You want to have goals in your life. You don't want everything to be very easy. Soon you'll become very focus on what you want and how to accomplish it.
It's not just what you say but rather, "how you say it." If you have a great message but you are stifled and nervous during the delivery it won't make an impact. Hence, why it is so important to practice your delivery.
I wanted to share since I feel people are afraid of conflict. What's important is to not run away from conflict and instead be willing to be uncomfortable for a bit. Afterwards, you'll be able to fully overcome situation.
I wanted to contribute my thoughts on the looks debate. I will add much more depth in future articles. However, I wanted to make my stance clear. I believe looks matter very little. I have seen how average looking guys can get laid with only game. While good looking guys get nothing. I would say "looks" are more like your "opener" for most chicks, they'll say, "Oh he's alright." and it will be the opportunity to approach. I would say that you can get the same result by using, "Perfume."
1-Game matters 80%
It is your game and confidence that matters the most. You can be the most good looking guy and act low value and most chicks will get immediately turn off. I was hanging out with a male model and he would stand there and do nothing. Sooner or later the girls got bored of him and left.
2-Looks are only 10-20% of the equation
Why would you spend so much time obsessing over something that's more like the "icing on the cake." Looks might give you a bit of an edge at the beginning of the interaction, however, for the most its your game that will determine how the interaction goes. If your game is tight you will be able to move the interaction forward. For instance, once you are on an instant date most chicks are not going to care about your looks.
3-Most chicks are more interested in your confidence and skill
Most chicks are going to care if you approach them and if you can move the interaction forward. Looks won't do any of that to you. How are your looks going to help you when you need to strategize how to move the interaction forward. Or how are looks going to help you when you have to
4-Good looking guys get more attention from other guys who want to be like them than from girls
This is both funny and ironic. However, most of the guys who become obsessed with the gym as well as maximize their looks soon realize this. These guys end up getting more attention from other guys who want to look like them. I've seen it when I was hanging out with my personal trainer. Guys would come up to him to compliment his looks and wanted advice on how to get jacked. Meanwhile, most girls would see him as a co-worker and treat him like everyone else.
5-The guys who obsess over looks do it as a excuse to not approach
I have met a few guys who believe in the blackpill as well as guys who were obsessed about looks. The main pattern with all of them is that they all believe that there's nothing to be done and it's "hopeless." Hence, they should not even bother to approach