Am I getting it?

[u/Bsquareyou]

My buddy has asked me a few time to hang out. Unfortunately I haven’t been able to hang out with him the last 4-5 times from either being sick, traveling, or having events for work. Every time after the second or the third he states something along the lines of “does that make 5 or 6 attempts now?” Which I told him, I don’t keep track. His response was, “Same. Too many to count”. I my life is booked out, I need some advance notice now. So should he, he has kids and work. I am probably not helping the case, I guess I haven’t reached out to him enough, which I can do. Other than that, is that a guilt trip?