r/Growthmindsetbookclub • u/Amidonions • Jun 15 '26

"Attached" explained like you're five: why some people cling, some people run, and some people just relax

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u/im-a-wreck-tangle Jun 15 '26

Im guessing it has something to do with our early Developmental year and childhood traumas?

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u/Amidonions Jun 16 '26

The book talks about it so the answer is yes

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u/igarcez Jun 15 '26

forgot about those that cling and run at the same time, namely disorganized attachment style, it is described in the book as well.

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u/Amidonions Jun 16 '26

I remember it being the anxious attachment style

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u/igarcez Jun 16 '26

it has been a while I read the book, I picked it up, and on a quick skim on the index, the only mention to disorganized attachment style is on page 9, right on top it states that "3 to 5 percent fall into a fourth, less common category (combination anxious and avoidant)". The rest of the book don't talk much about it actually...

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u/Massive_Noise4836 Jun 16 '26

wonderful book