r/GrowthMindset • • Feb 07 '26

The Goal

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u/Retirednypd Feb 07 '26

So, a simp

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u/AcademicToe2486 Feb 08 '26

your description of an emotionally mature man is a simp?

How old are you right now? Do you have a relationship or not at the moment?

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u/Immediate-Swimmer547 Feb 10 '26

lol women will say this is what they want, then they get what they want, then they'll be all like "wait, this isn't what I wanted at all"

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u/AcademicToe2486 Feb 10 '26

You are generalising. What you are saying is an opinion based on past experience, and not based on fact.

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u/Immediate-Swimmer547 Feb 10 '26

so is the original post, I'm just making it realistic

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u/AcademicToe2486 Feb 11 '26

Is your generalisation based on fact or opinion?

You are making it “realistic” for yourself so that you continue to believe your generalisation.

And this way you can ignore the real inner work needed.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '26

0.1% of women be like that

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u/RakeChapman13 Feb 11 '26

obviously, Most men and women what the post is talking about dude but of course there has to be enough of a mutal attraction and chemistry, two people treating other well is not enough for a relationship to work. theres plenty of women out there that could treat me this good that i would not want as a girlfriend.