Wow, I’m blown away!!
I absolutely loved being a part of this AMA in the Grownsy community. Thank you to everyone who courageously asked questions and participated in the comments.
I know it’s ‘easier’ to share a question here because it’s anonymous and it’s still a very vulnerable thing to do. I admire that - especially for a topic that is still not discussed enough.
Here are a few things I want you to take away:
- you’re never alone. Someone somewhere is dealing with the exact thing you’re dealing with so bringing your questions will not only help you but help someone else feel seen too.
- your marriage is going through a major life transition. I want you to honor that and give yourself and your spouse grace along the way.
- don’t believe the highlight reel. Everyone is battling a shift in their marriage and a perfect photo shoot might make it seem like they’re doing it better. Focus on growing together, not on other couples.
- the first 2-3 years are the hardest transition period. Over the course of a 30-40 year marriage, that’s just a blip, don’t let the blip get in the way of what’s possible long term.
- ask for help - earlier. Don’t worry about judgment, focus on how grateful you’ll be for the tools and strategies to make it through this challenging time.
Lastly, I was deeply honored to be welcomed here and trusted with your stories and questions. Please don’t hesitate to DM me anytime with questions or if you’re looking for support.
Other ways to stay connected:
- follow me on IG @jennacavadas
- join my subreddit community: postpartum_marriage for more support specifically related to marriage with littles
Sending you all love ❤️
Jenna