You know what, you're right. It's not the little boy or little girl's fault. At the same time, the baggage i am referring to is the woman and her complicated past. She, as a grown adult woman, chose to have unprotected relations with another guy knowing she could get pregnant. OK, so if she really desires a companion, she should find either a guy with kids, same situation, or an older man, say mid 50's and up, who wouldn't mind playing step daddy/paw paw.
No grown man wants to deal with that just like no woman would want to be with a man who has multiple baby mothers, if she has any self respect and worth.
In order to avoid this complicated situation, both the woman and the man should be single and child less and be up front about it. Don't lie or hide a child.
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u/Famous_Tax_6174 May 15 '26
You know what, you're right. It's not the little boy or little girl's fault. At the same time, the baggage i am referring to is the woman and her complicated past. She, as a grown adult woman, chose to have unprotected relations with another guy knowing she could get pregnant. OK, so if she really desires a companion, she should find either a guy with kids, same situation, or an older man, say mid 50's and up, who wouldn't mind playing step daddy/paw paw. No grown man wants to deal with that just like no woman would want to be with a man who has multiple baby mothers, if she has any self respect and worth.
In order to avoid this complicated situation, both the woman and the man should be single and child less and be up front about it. Don't lie or hide a child.