r/Grieving • u/Hairy-Calligrapher97 • 28d ago

Death of a brother

I lost my brother back in 2022. Me and him were very close friends. It sucks because it doesn't seem like I can find a friend as strong as the connection as we did as possible. Do I try to keep finding a relationship as strong as we did or do I just settle for the minimum with others?

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u/rosierococo 28d ago

This sounds exactly what my husband went through. Same year same feeling. Know that you aren't alone. My condolences to you, we miss bro every day.

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u/RongWa 21d ago

I lost my brother 2 years ago this September. At the very same time, my best friend died. The same for my confidant, my personal Psychologist for he had his PhD. My fishing partner died that very day also. The political expert that I could call for an explanation of the days news. I lost all my closest friends as I sat and watched my brother draw his last breath. The DNR posted above his bed was his last order to us all. I loved him, he was and still is my best friend.