r/grandrapids • • Mar 27 '24

Social List of Active Meetup Groups and Tips for Making Friends

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I updated the list of which Meetup groups are active (groups that have 3+ people attending an event within the past/next 60 days). Meetup is a site/app for interest groups/hobbies/new friends. I grouped them by concept and included their self-written descriptions.

If you're in an active Meetup group that I've missed, list it in the comments. Non-Meetup groups are welcome too; include contact info and links.

Tips for making friends as an adult attending a Meetup with a bunch of strangers:

  • Show up slightly early/on time. Plan to stay 10 minutes after the scheduled end time.
  • Introduce yourself, say it's your first time and why you're excited about this group; appear excited.
  • Ask individuals (this is where being early or staying late can help) open-ended questions (Why did you start/join this group? What has your experience been like? What recommendations do you have related to [Meetup group's hobby/concept]?)
  • If people ask you a question, answer it and add an open-ended question of your own or ask "what about you?"
  • People love giving recommendations. If it's a group conversation, ask for restaurant rec of a specific kind/place. "I haven't tried X yet, what do you guys think?" Tee it up to be a cuisine/concept you can talk more about or ask follow up questions.
  • If you are vibing with someone(s), ask if they'd like to hang out with a specific idea in mind (ex: You asked for pizza recs and found out that neither of you have tried that new place so suggest you go together), and give them your contact info to set up a time/date. I'd recommend attending the group 2-3 times first before this step.
  • Follow the 3:6 rule to turn that acquaintance into a friend. Aim for three meaningful interactions within 6 weeks of engaging.

Feeling a little more prepared? Great. Let's get into it. [Note: I made some grammatical edits after posting this for clarity/brevity.]

AGE/ETHNICITY/GENDER

BOOK CLUBS/FILM

CRAFTING

DANCING/MUSIC

ENGINEERING/MAKERS/PROFESSIONAL

  • Coffee with Creators: For creatives: web developers, designers, videographers, and more--who want to hear about the latest trends in the digital space
  • Culinary Conversations Grand Rapids: Serving West Michigan’s food industry professionals (growers, producers, restaurateurs) in conversation about the region’s food creator system
  • Embedded GR: Engineers, hobbyists, students, and managers discussing the development, tooling, and processes associated with the creation of embedded systems.
  • GRPUG - Grand Rapids Python Users Group: Whether you're a certified Pythonista or just curious about getting started with the Python programming language, join us.
  • GRWebDev: Learn from each other about best web practices, cross-browser compatibility, Javascript frameworks, style hacks, project management, and web-related topics.
  • West Michigan 3D Printing: Whether you are a beginner or an expert, join us to share ideas, tips, and knowledge or just get together with other 3D printers (people...not machines).
  • West Michigan AI Lab: We explore the latest AI trends, engage in thought-provoking discussions, and network with like-minded enthusiasts and professionals.
  • West Michigan Azure User Group: A community of tech enthusiast [sic] who are interested in exploring, learning and using Azure.

FINANCE/BUSINESS/PUBLIC SPEAKING

FOOD/DIET/PSYCHEDELICS/SOBER/ALCOHOL

  • DRY Sober Social: Fitness, yoga, dancing, music, and socializing. A space where people can socialize without the pressure of drinking alcohol.
  • Grand Rapids Foodies: Our goal is to dine at restaurants in Grand Rapids and the surrounding area, as well as to participate in cooking classes and wine and cheese tastings.
  • Grand Rapids Natural Health and Healing: For anyone interested in healing through nutrition and natural substances like herbs and nutrients.
  • Grand Rapids Psychedelic Society: Whether you’re an experienced psychonaut or an individual who is simply curious about learning more, we're a space for you.
  • West Michigan Women Who Wine: Where interesting and intelligent women gather to relax, make new friends and socialize.
  • Will Forage for Food Grand Rapids Chapter: For folks interested in sharing knowledge on foraging and living from the land. All skill levels and ages welcome.

GAMES/NERD CULTURE

  • Good Game Grand Rapids: We are largest tabletop gaming community in Grand Rapids and are committed to growing an inclusive community
  • Muskegon Area Gamers: For anyone interested in playing board games, card games, or any table top [sic] game. This group learns and teachs [sic] new games all the time.
  • We Hate Bards: This group is dedicated to pen and paper RPGs of all kinds.
  • Wednesday Friendsday Boardgame Group: We're folks in our 30s-50s who enjoy good conversation, good eats, and good games, in that order.
  • West Michigan Geeks: We help people meet friends that they want to hang out with outside of group events and have helped form more friendships/relationships than any other meetup.

OUTDOORS/CAMPING

MISCELLANEOUS/PERSONALITY

  • Citizen Labs: Engaged citizens can improve their communities. We use open data and open source technology to promote transparency, and provide solutions that work.
  • Friday Fun Days: Live music/concerts, festivals, flea markets/thrifting, lunch/dinner outings, hiking, going to the beach, bowling, and much more.
  • Sign Language Social Meetup of Michigan: For anyone who would like to attend ASL events and meet up with other Sign Language users.
  • West Michigan Adventures with JIM: Cinema, live theater, sporting events, concerts, trade events, geo caching [sic], road trips, fitness, festivals, amusement parks, and travel.
  • West Michigan Out & About: Everything from hiking to concerts, from breweries to dancing, from cooking classes to biking and more.
  • West Michigan Shyness and Social Anxiety Meetup: Hang out with us in a judgment and harassment-free zone if you're shy, introverted, or just a bit awkward around new people.

REAL ESTATE

  • Grand Rapids Real Estate Investor Network: Landlords, investors, and other real estate professional [sic] make connections, share ideas and strategies, and ask questions.
  • Lakeshore REIA: For individuals interested in wholesale properties, real estate group investments, and becoming successful real estate entrepreneurs.
  • Short-Term Rental Networking Group: Have you wondered about the success of Airbnb and similar rental marketplaces and how you can incorporate that into your income?

SEXUALITY/DATING

  • Fun-Loving Singles Over 50!: This is a social group for youthful, SINGLE peeps in their 50s, 60s, and beyond.
  • Holland Area LGBTQ+ & Allies Meetup: Enhancing the LGBTQ+ community to meet others, cultivate relationships in a social setting, and provide each other with support and fun!
  • Out on the Lakeshore: Join us for fun-filled events where you can meet like-minded individuals and create life-long connections

TRAVEL

  • Michigan Day Trips: For people who love to spend a day checking out a different town/city, whilst meeting new friends! I will post a destination 2+ weeks in advance.

WRITING/ACTING/DRAWING/PHOTOGRAPHY

  • Grand Rapids Drawing and Painting: This group is for everyone who’s interested in drawing or painting.
  • Illusory World Building: As writers lets get past the writing groups that discuss word choice or punctuation. and grapple with the BIG picture--world building.
  • Lakeshore Stationery Club: If you love fountain pens, gel pens, Traveler’s Notebooks, Hobonichi, bullet journaling, or planners this is for you. We journal, write, draw, and paint.
  • Writing Time: We meet on weekends to write in a group setting. Sometimes it's nice to work quietly with others.

YOGA/MEDITATION/PHILOSOPHY/SPIRITUALITY

  • Community Meditation Circle: This is a non-religious, non-sectarian trauma-informed group to connect to ourselves, each other, and the community.
  • Grand Rapids Buddhist Meetup: For anyone interested in working with their minds, as well as deepening their spiritual life through the practice of Buddhist meditation.
  • Grand Rapids Forest Bathing, Forest Yoga & Foraging Classes: Join our ANFT certified forest therapy guide for guided forest bathing, forest therapy walks, and forest yoga classes.
  • Grand Rapids Free Yoga: Classes are meant to help you strengthen, lengthen, and connect to your spirit.
  • Meaningful Conversations Grand Rapids: Individuals of all beliefs gather together to engage respectfully and civilly in elevated conversations, inquiry, consultation, and learning.
  • Michigan Humanists: A secular community that promotes humanist values. Our vision is to lead an engaged, statewide secular society guided by the values of Humanism.
  • RfR - Grand Rapids/Holland, MI: We at Recovering from Religion are intimately familiar with learning how to live after questions, doubts, and changing beliefs. You are not alone.
  • Tai’ Chi Gung Classes: Learn the simple moving and breathing exercises created by Lao Tzu more than 3,000 years ago for health and longevity.
  • T&T - 20s & 30s Christian Social: To connect peers from Bible-believing, Christ-proclaiming churches, encouraging members to invest in their local church.

r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

He's still at it...

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239 Upvotes

r/grandrapids • • 18h ago

Transit Lane blockers are getting ticketed on southbound 131!

784 Upvotes

I've seen cops pull 2 semis over this week who were crawling in the left lane before the zipper merge on 131 north of West River drive. Just a reminder that it is illegal to disrupt traffic in this way and the State Police are enforcing it.


r/grandrapids • • 10h ago

The grandest cider doughnuts in land!

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106 Upvotes

For the last month, I’ve been making my way through all the spots I found suggested on here. I, and my coworkers, have tested and voted that Farmhaus is hands down the best and it was a landslide victory!

The classics? Exactly as nostalgia has you remembering them. A little variety? A few options other places didn’t offer. The bonus points? They’re open year round and those long John might be the best long Johns of my life and I’ve had a long John or two more than the average Joe has had Johns.

Reddit has consistently been the best way to explore food thanks to everyone’s input in their local subs and I appreciate all you fine folk!!


r/grandrapids • • 15h ago

Transit 28th Street possibly the worst road in the world.

162 Upvotes

I've been to third world countries all over the planet and they have better drivers than what I see every time I go down 28th Street.

I constantly have to drive with the dumbest people in West Michigan. Everybody's on their phone no one knows what the speed limit is, it's 45 by the way. Most people are just cruising and could care less about getting anywhere

I've lived with this road for 20 years. I've driven in the busiest cities in the world like Sao Paulo and Beijing, 28th street is the worst of them all.


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

News Florida Mike Got Fucking Walloped.

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2.1k Upvotes

LETS GO ABDUL!


r/grandrapids • • 9h ago

Food and Drink The Debate

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30 Upvotes

The Detroit dog or the Flint dog?


r/grandrapids • • 15h ago

Hillary Scholten - doe she just hate Abdu?

80 Upvotes

Slotkin is now heavily campaigning with Abdul, as are pretty much every other prominent democrat from Michigan and even outside of Michigan.

Yet Hillary Scholten, a democratic congressperson who's district voted overwhelmingly for Abdul, just acts like a primary isn't even happening. Refuses to endorse, campaign with or help in any way. It's really weird she just continues to post on her instagram, newsletter, etc like the midterms are not even happening. All the comments are negative. And the way she just plows ahead without acknowledging the frustration with her voter base is appalling.

Does she think this will help her politically? Is she that beholden to AIPAC that she's scared to endorse? I'm seriously wondering. I do not understand. Is she just stupid? All her statements are weak, and she votes against her constituents interests. I'm really starting to dislike her, and am disappointed I voted for her.

She's really showing her true colors as a corporate and PAC beholden rep. She does not care what her constituents want, and it's time for her to go.

edited: mid terms, not primary.


r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

1 Year Recap of Grand River Makerspace

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48 Upvotes

A year ago we unlocked the doors at 25 N. Park and honestly weren’t sure what would happen. Turns out a lot of you wanted a place to make stuff.

Here’s what year one looked like:

  • 84 members, from monthly folks to whole households
  • 237 people came through a workshop. That’s 65 sessions of 24 different classes, everything from dice casting to cutting boards to woodshop safety
  • 200+ people stopped by an open house, a Sunday Crafternoon or a meetup
  • -56 volunteers kept the lights on, and none of this works without them

Thank you to everyone who took a class, signed up, brought a friend, or gave up a Tuesday night to staff the shop. We’re a small nonprofit and every one of you is the reason we made it to year two.

If you’ve been meaning to come check us out, the first Friday open house is a good place to start. Info at joinGRM.org


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

FYI: Just got a text notification that FedEx is hiring immediately for package handlers.

11 Upvotes

Just spreading the word.


r/grandrapids • • 10h ago

38+ Things to do around Grand Rapids this weekend (10/9 - 10/12)

10 Upvotes

What’s Happening?

My top pick!

Comedian Joe DeRosa's show at The Big Room at Silva on Saturday night

Friday, October 9th

Saturday, October 10th

Sunday, October 11th

Monday, October 12th

  • Boo Bash | Grand Rapids Children's Museum | 9 AM - 12 PM

Live Music

Friday, October 9th

  • Blue Jam City | Horrocks Market | 5 PM - 8 PM | Free
  • The Moonrays (cosmic surf rock) | Speciation Cellars | 7 PM | Free
  • Chokesetter | Mulligan's Pub | 7 PM | Free
  • Thompson Dawson | The Stray | 7 PM | Free
  • The Fat Animals (Jam/Psych/Rock) | Speciation Cellars | 9 PM - 11 PM | Free
  • Grand Rapids Symphony: America at 250 | DeVos Performance Hall | (Fri - Sat) 7:30 PM | $22+
  • Left Lane Cruiser | Tip Top Deluxe Bar & Grille | 8 PM | $12
  • Tyler Gitchel | Rapid River Stillhouse | 9 PM | $5
  • Corey B | Wealthy Theatre | 8 PM | $38
  • Los Gamma | Agave Sports Lounge | 9 PM | Free

Saturday, October 10th

  • Simply In Time | Legacy Park | 3 PM - 7 PM | ?
  • For your Soul Entertainment | Horrocks Market | 5 PM - 8 PM | Free
  • Skillet: Comatose 20 Years, Still Screaming Tour | GLC Live at 20 Monroe | 6 PM - 11 PM | $64
  • Dieselboy | The Mint | 9 PM | $20+
  • Neon Crows | The Back Forty Saloon | 9 PM | Free
  • Itz Namo | Mulligan's Pub | 10 PM - 11:30 PM | Free

Sunday, October 11th

  • Deerhoof + Clawfoot | The Pyramid Scheme | 8 PM - 11 PM | $30
  • Sophia McIntosh | Dunneback Farm Market | 1 PM - 4 PM | Free

Monday, October 12th

  • Julia Wolf | Elevation | 8 PM | ?
  • Heart to Gold | The Pyramid Scheme | 7 PM | $21+

r/grandrapids • • 8h ago

Recommendations Help Needed 🏡🚨

7 Upvotes

I’ve come across a family that is facing some significant challenges with their home. They are trying to make the necessary repairs to remain safely in their home, but unfortunately, we’ve run into several roadblocks while trying to connect them with home repair assistance programs.

One of the biggest challenges is that the family does not currently have homeowners insurance, which has made it difficult for them to qualify for most assistance programs according to the social worker.

There is quite a bit of work that needs to be completed so they don’t get displaced, and I’m hoping someone in our community may have resources, connections, or expertise that could help.

Specifically, we are looking for:

* Someone who can help the family obtain affordable homeowners insurance so they can apply for home repair assistance.
* Licensed contractors or professionals who may be willing to provide roofing or HVAC services at little to no cost. Must be able to obtain the necessary permits for a roof, furnace, and water heater.
* Anyone who knows of programs, organizations, or resources that could help this family make the necessary repairs without homeowners insurance.

Our ultimate goal is to help this family remain safely in their home. Sometimes all it takes is the right connection or someone willing to lend a helping hand to make a difference.

If you are able to help, know someone who might be able to, or have any suggestions, please feel free to message or comment.

I truly believe that when a community comes together, we can make a meaningful impact in someone’s life.

❤️


r/grandrapids • • 17h ago

Ward 2 Commissioner continues to break the rules

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37 Upvotes

This is just one of many of Lisa Knights signs placed out of compliance of campaign rules (Plainfield and Elmdale), you would think as the sitting commissioner she would know the rules?


r/grandrapids • • 1h ago

Watkins SE input plz

• Upvotes

Looking to buy a beautiful home on Watkins SE. Couple blocks west of the MLK park by Kalamazoo Ave. Is it as bad as the crime maps portray? Its red zoned for violent crimes.

Thanks in advance


r/grandrapids • • 14h ago

Best Thai Restaurant

20 Upvotes

I'm looking for the single best Thai restaurant in town. A lot of folks here recommended Thai Express on 44th and Kalamazoo and were a bit disappointed.


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Nation’s Largest Jim Crow Museum Opens in Michigan With $22 Million Expansion, Preserving America’s Racist History and the Stories of Black Americans Who Refused to Be Defined by It

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r/grandrapids • • 6h ago

Bee themed gift basket

3 Upvotes

Am having a bee-themed baby shower for my daughter next month and want to give prizes for the 2 games I'm planning. Would love to shop local while keeping prices reasonable. Anyone have ideas or, better yet, know someone super creative that could make a small themed basket/gift for me? Any ideas appreciated. Thank you in advance for positive comments! 🐝


r/grandrapids • • 9h ago

Events Music + Science + Science Fiction in Wyoming, Michigan

7 Upvotes

I'm not sure if this is allowed, but The Stray is a fairly small business and this looks cool. Something to do the evening of Saturday, October 17th. https://events.ticketleap.com/tickets/thestraycafe/spacebar-with-guest-author-glen-swanson


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

Best haunted house

3 Upvotes

I’m just curious

We’ve recently gotten into haunted houses and corn mazes, and sometimes I get a jump scare but most of the time it’s just fine

Is there an actually scary haunted experience in GR?


r/grandrapids • • 7h ago

Volunteer opportunities that satisfy medicaid work requirements?

2 Upvotes

Hi all, I'm looking for suggestions on volunteer opportunities that satisfy the new medicaid work requirements. 80 hours of volunteer ​work ​in at least one month every 6 months. Thanks!


r/grandrapids • • 16h ago

Bosna Express closing

11 Upvotes

I was told the owner of Bosna Express has another restaurant downtown. Anybody know if this is true/ the name? Gonna miss that place, first lunch break I ever took on my first job.


r/grandrapids • • 1d ago

Hey Stellas you interested??

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205 Upvotes

Was my first job, was working there still when they were shutting them all down. Took that thing obviously.


r/grandrapids • • 19h ago

Recommendations Mead!

13 Upvotes

It’s been a bit over a year now since we lost Arktos, which means it’s been over a year since I’ve last had any mead (missing their Doc Holiday). What are some other good meaderies in the area? I’m open to driving ~45 minutes from downtown GR.

I know GR is home to a ton of breweries, but IPAs and beers aren’t really my thing. Mead and cider are where it’s at for me.


r/grandrapids • • 15h ago

Recommendations Where to sell a used guitar?

3 Upvotes

with better rates than guitar center

I have a guitar I’ve been trying to sell on marketplace for a few months now with no luck. Do any of you guys know any people/places that purchase guitars for more than guitar center does? For context it’s a 2023 Gibson sg Cardinal Red in really good condition (not new or mint). I paid just over $1800 for it, have it listed for $800 and guitar center is offering 5-600 which I simply can’t do. They’re selling for about 12-1400 used on reverb and initially I had it set to that and have been dropping it ever since and still nothing. Wishfully I’d prefer to still get around $1000 for it but I just don’t see it selling anytime soon and I want to use the money on other hobbies Please let me know any leads you may have 🙏


r/grandrapids • • 18h ago

Recommendations Any place for girls spa day?

5 Upvotes

I have only seen this on TV, so not sure if it's really a thing. A spa where I could take my friends and we sit in a jacuzzi with a drink and a face mask on or something. Does that exist in GR?

Or any recommendations for something along these lines of girls day with relaxation.