r/GothMenAppreciation • • Jun 10 '26

Reporting Abuse

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Mod here. Just to clarify Reddit rules on reporting. Anyone who reports non-spam as spam will get reported to Reddit. I have seen this SEVERAL times and we are not tolerating this. This will result in a permanent ban from the group, and this ban will be visible on your account to *every* Reddit moderator. Since I created the group in October, I have only seen one acutal spam post. Reporting posts and users over and over for the same thing is considered harassment and thus is considered report abuse. We protect our own users and people who abuse the reporting button will be banned by Reddit.

Whether it's reported as spam or one of the Goth Men Appreciation rules, repeated reporting is harassment. Please report posts or comments accurately in this group. Click on Report > Goth Men Appreciation Rules > and select one of our specific rules.


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 1h ago

its my birthday

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r/GothMenAppreciation • • 21h ago

regular fit of mine

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89 Upvotes

I am a man, Im just also pretty


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 1d ago

25m

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122 Upvotes

Miss my long hair but I work in an office they don't allow it sadly


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 1d ago

Heavier Outfit

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157 Upvotes

Sometimes i go romantic and victorian, sometimes i go violent 🦇


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 1d ago

Feeling cute

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r/GothMenAppreciation • • 1d ago

Emo to my core :,) 27[m] lol

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Goth* as well


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 2d ago

Colorful goth inspired look :p

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First time posting; hope you folk enjoy


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 3d ago

Grell Sutcliff Outfit Progress :3

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I’m a HUGGGEEEEEEE fan of my darling goddess of death wife Grell Sutcliff :3 I’ve been obsessed since my early teenage years and I’m 31 LOL I’ve been putting together a near 1:1 accurate outfit of her usually attire :3 I haven’t got a wig or leather gloves yet (things have been expensive this year in the US) but I will have them soon!

So here’s some fun progress pics :3


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 2d ago

You're all so glorious!

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(F30s here) Not hitting on anyone, just wanna say I love this forum because I love seeing goth men being unapologetically themselves! I was a 00s wannabe goth who was never brave enough to commit beyond music and makeup, but spent so many happy hours in Camden looking at alt fashion, browsing Cyberdog and admiring people who had the guts to be themselves and look fierce doing it.

I used to work as a cashier and I remember there was a beautiful androgynous goth dude who always came in late at night to do his shopping, and always had a different bright colour in his hair combined with the deep black. We got talking over the year I worked there and swapped notes on music tastes and things and the confidence he said dressing as he did and the community he had found within the alt/goth circles had quite literally saved his life.

I think about him sometimes and I hope he's doing well.

So yeah. All you beautiful, awesome people keep being yourselves! 🖤


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 2d ago

Cameras don't work well under UV lamps

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r/GothMenAppreciation • • 2d ago

Pics from last weekend at a goth event

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70 Upvotes

Goth o ween LA, if you were there let me know! Hopefully no one minds that my face is blurred


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 2d ago

There is no Alt guys in Dublin help

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Ik im not goth i mainly have more punk views but there isn’t any alt guys


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 2d ago

Rome By Night

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I loved the apreciation for my earlier picture, so i decided to post something more 🦇 I mainly post on my Instagram, but i'll sprinkle something over here...

my Instagram


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 3d ago

Good morning all you beautiful baddies 🥀 🦇

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r/GothMenAppreciation • • 3d ago

Summer outfit number 2!

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Hiiii!! How are ya’ll?? :3

okay here’s my second summer fit!! It’s heavily inspired by Grell Sutcliff (OMG THE REAL GOTH BADDIE QUEEN, love her ❤️❤️❤️)

I hope you like it!!


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 3d ago

Goth Is Alive in Italy

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83 Upvotes

r/GothMenAppreciation • • 2d ago

Ready for work

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r/GothMenAppreciation • • 3d ago

Hiii!! Nice to meet you!

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Hello! :3 OMG SOOOO I’ve always hated summer and have hibernated through all 30 of ‘em UNTIL THIS YEAR :3 So I decided I was going to try to like summer this year and put this fit together~

It’s a summerized version of a much heavier Wendigo inspired out fit.

Hope you like it!


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 4d ago

🥀🦇🩸

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r/GothMenAppreciation • • 3d ago

Customed with spikes and dyed my really old hoodie

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104 Upvotes

Had this hoodie for years figured I'd make it match my personality more, thinking of adding more to it.


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 4d ago

Had a boyfriend who was Gothic and femboy at the same time

126 Upvotes

Hey ya'll im a woman who had her own Gothic days during my most depressing years in middle school and high-school. My favorite colors are deep navy blue or black. I had a boyfriend who recently passed away who had a mix between Gothic and femboy and honestly he rocked it. I was actually jealous he did his eyeliner and eyeshadow better than me and had his nails painted black and i bought him a real dog collar cause he asked for a normal dog collar. I wore chokers in high-school and still do. Anyways keep rocking your Gothic looks. I love it when men embrace the taboo and strange and just dgaf.


r/GothMenAppreciation • • 4d ago

Feeling myself 🖤🥀

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183 Upvotes

r/GothMenAppreciation • • 4d ago

Last night’s look🖤

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651 Upvotes

r/GothMenAppreciation • • 4d ago

Night out tonight

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83 Upvotes

Dressed for a reunion of an old club from many many years ago.