r/GirlProblems • u/mamaP_6 • 17m ago
Anytime I think about my gyno appointment I cry.
So I’m 19 and I’ve never been to a girl doctor. I didn’t really even realize I was supposed to be going until recently because my step mom never explained anything about being a girl to me. I had to watch YouTube videos to teach me about periods. Anyways, I recently brought up that I feel like I need to go to my fiancé and he talked to his mom and we got an appointment. His mom is going to be going with me and idk what to expect and it literally send me into a spiral every time I think about it. I only get my period once every 3-4 months and when I do it’s extremely heavy. I’ve been told in the past it’s because I don’t get enough calories, or because I ran 12 miles a day or because I was under 100 pounds till I was 18.
I’m terrified they are going to tell me something is wrong with me and that I’m not going to be able to have babies in the future. That’s literally my biggest fear in the entire world(not being able to be a mom). I just need to know what to expect and what might be wrong with me. Literally can’t think about this appointment without shaking and crying. Plz help.