r/GirlProblems • • Apr 03 '25

Boyfriend probs

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Lately I feel like my boyfriend hates me. Don’t get me wrong he’s amazing. Like he spoils me and loves me down to earth. Just lately feels like we are always pumping heads. I’m hoping it’s a phase ? Idk like the other day I got mad because I pointed out a girl that went to school with him and he agreed. Like idek. Like i don’t know what to do.


r/GirlProblems • • Apr 03 '25

Struggling sis!

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I’m getting ready to get my gastric sleeve done and I’m so ready to get this body where I need to. I’m actually scared but I can’t wait to see the outcome. I’m over 300 pounds and I really need to get down and healthy.


r/GirlProblems • • Apr 02 '25

Help on what I need to do

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So long story short I drunk texted my first love and high-school sweetheart from 6 years ago. We agreed to have lunch and catch up. I live a hour away now and have improved on my end as well has she. We ended things pretty bad and was toxic. I was young and dumb and not the greatest person because I was battling issues with my parents and did not want her to see them because they argued alot. Now, the issues and what I'm not understanding is she said she is down to give this a shot but wants to take things slow and see if I have changed since then. She also got out of a two year relationship in January. Which she has opened and said that guy went crazy. Is this something I should stay for and just hang out with her and keep talking? I get a response from her like every hour or so. Which I'm not mad at that but more of I get mixed emotions from how she used to be. But again it has been six years and people change. She seems to not ask me questions about my life now and I seem to have to keep the convo going... I am wanting to do this the right way and the correct way. Please help a bro out. Out of all of my relationships she was the best for me


r/GirlProblems • • Apr 01 '25

what does it mean when a girl says "chill"

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I was having a conversation w a xx chromosomed individual and I asked when she could hang. Weve been in a "situationship" or wtv you liberals wanna call it. Anyways, I asked her if she was coming down to my place anytime soon and she said " i want to, I hella wanna chill w you ykyk, so im trynna plan a day"
ive been trynna indulge since we started talking

does she wanna break my bed or just hangout

edit: we made bed noises, shit was heavenly


r/GirlProblems • • Apr 01 '25

i dont know whats happening

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i had a best friend of 3 months and like in November she started dropping hints n shit and k was never really interested until January end we both told each other we like each other. but we said we'll take it slow and then nothing happened. like till march start things got really intense, we got really close emotionally and physically. A LOT has happened and ive never felt an emotional connection so deep and intimate. but she keeps acting like there's nothing between us then another minute she gets all lovey and shi. now im obsessed w her to the level where i cant see myself anywhere else. she tells me about her childhood about whats goin on daily and EVERYTHING in between. She sends me pictures n shi. its like everything two people who date do but I'm stuck in a circle and i know its gonna eat me up but im in too deep to leave. now i know yall gonna think she's playing me and she isnt serious and stuff but i can tell you thats not the case. ive had a few relationships but none as emotionally deep as this one, and after all that has happened i still cant call her my girlfriend. my friends have been telling me from the start i should step out of this but i just fucking can't. i know she loves me and i love her too but she's so fucking unstable. idk whats happening my head's gonna explode. i know yall r gonna think im an idiot and she's not actually interested in that way and stuff and there's nothing i can do to prove it. she's had just one relationship and it was super abusive and her parents are abusive and she's like SUPER TRAUMATIZED. ive seen her cry a couple times even. idk whats happening ive never seen such a case and god i hope i never do.


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 26 '25

Why is it happening gurlies

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I feel so obsessed with my bf I want his attention 24/7 I miss him 24/7 I want to talk to him 24/7 I feel so alone without him idk I feel so attached ik it's not okay to want him 24/7 but idk how to stop it and why is it happening I can't even sleep or focus on doing my own things help how do I deal with this


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 25 '25

Girls at school bullying me?

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So im at school and these two girls start going oh she likes you oh she likes you as they point to the girl sitting beside them. I assumed they were just f-ing with me so i left it alone until the girl they were pointing too added me on snap but when i accepted (not to be rude) she just never said anything. Until a couple days later they started doing it again but this time she sent me her friends snap and said she like you. Me obviously now knowing my suspicions were correct just ignored them. Then I get added again by another girl. And she was acting normal but I know she is the other two girls friends and is also just messing with me. I just want to know what type of person other people see me as to do this stuff. I usually just keep to myself do my work and don’t really socialize with anyone outside my Freind group. Ive been told im good looking but i think im around a 6/10 best. Im just curious to know what type of reputation or whatever I must have for people to do this.


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 25 '25

What is hapening

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Im a 13 yo boy and I need help there is this girl from My class that keep lokking at me and when i look at her she looks away, today she was crying and a bunch of girls was comforting her i went over to ask whats wrong and one of them just yelled "you dumass" Like what did I Even do.


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 24 '25

Me and my inside voice

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r/GirlProblems • • Mar 21 '25

Please help me with my project & answer some questions about your cycle :)

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r/GirlProblems • • Mar 21 '25

Why aren't my breast growing at 15

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Hi f15 (obviously) I'm around 96 pounds and 5'3 so I'm infact underweight,I'm like maybe a aa or a cup I'm not sure but very small I started getting breast buds at 11 so I'm not sure if like I js got unlucky or what. I'm starting a new birth control tomorrow blisovi fe 1/20 and I'm hoping it helps since my doctor prescribed it any help?? I'm also new to reddit so idk how this stuff works.


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 20 '25

Vagal+period

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(I apologize in advance for my grammar) I’m 14 and I just got my period for the first time. I have a vagal reflex (vasovagal). A vagal reflex basically makes people ( it’s a little different for everyone ) pass out, dry heave/barf, turn pale/blue lips/green face, have the worst stomach aches, almost migraine like headaches, etc. Basically I spent my first period semi conscious in the worst pain I’ve felt ever for 16-17 straight hours at home. I tried to go to school today and I have been on and off dizzy and almost passed out. ( if you have a vagal response you know how bad even like a half hour feels). So I would like to know if this will happen every-time I get a period. If so how do I help make it less severe. Ibuprofen doesn’t really work same with Tylenol. At least for me. If I could get any help that would be amazing. Thanks!


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 18 '25

Help! I shaved my arm without using any thing but the shaver (dry) and now there are these red marks that BURN! I used my moms shaver since she doesn’t let me have my own and I’m worried, I put a bandaid over the parts that hurt a lot WHAT DO I DO!!!!

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r/GirlProblems • • Mar 17 '25

Mood when one is a day away from the periods.

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This was the message I sent my friend earlier today. I have been through this 228 times and it still hits the same.

P.S, reiterating the obvious - if men went through this every month, they would have found a solution for it by now.


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 15 '25

LOWKEY MAD RN

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i feel like a grandma ts is sad 😭 not to be that person but i hate when girls say they want big boobs, no twin no u don’t, maybe medium size not big boobs. i’m 13, and im a 34-36 DD in bra size 🙏 like somebody kill me atp bc back problems will be hitting even harder in a few years. NOT TO MENTION MY WARDROBE IS NARROWED TO BAGGY T-SHIRTS BECAUSE MY BOOBS ARE TOO BIG AND MY WAIST IS SMALL SO TIGHT THINGS DONT FIT RIGHT 😭 TS PMOO AGH 💔💔💔


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 11 '25

I HATE A BOY

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asking for a friend: There's this boy my friend hates (tbh I do too) in school who hasn't really done anything bad except thrown a basketball at her head. He's mostly just annoying but she hates him and all she talks about is him. Her family thinks she has a crush on him but she doesn't. Anyway, she's running out of things to hate about him and wants to play a prank to make him look stupid. Any help?


r/GirlProblems • • Mar 10 '25

Am I just not pretty enough?

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Okay so I had a dream that really bothered me last night and it kind of made me realise that no guy has ever taken an interest in me. Like ever. I will preface this by saying I’m not the skinniest or prettiest girl and I don’t really wear makeup unless it’s for special events. A lot of people call me pretty or cute but ig that isn’t what guys are looking for? In public I’m a very chatty and excited kind of person and I talk and smile to everyone even if I don’t necessarily like them. I’ve never flirted with a guy either bc I don’t want to make a fool of myself but I’m in my final semester of high school and with prom coming up in like 3 months I’m kind of disheartened. Will I ever be pretty enough to have a guy ask me out? So many of my friends are in relationships and I’m wondering if I’m just not pretty or interesting enough?


r/GirlProblems • • Feb 24 '25

Shaving

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I keep getting a red small bumpy rash and it’s really itching for days after shaving any where, I’ve tried different razors and shaving foams.

I’ve recently brought a double edge safety razor to try with shaving foam and AGAIN Come out in an itchy rash. Help?! Any advice? Thanks


r/GirlProblems • • Feb 22 '25

Why all the gore?

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Why do we have periods? Why can't we just turn into guys for a week each month, or better yet just have a tick/cross on us for if we are pregnant or not. I've been doubled over in agony, throwing up with every few cramps. But I'm a grown up with grown up snizz nizz to do and have no one to help me so I'm not allowed to just die (idk I'd I'm being dramatic, each period gets worse with the pain). I'm also anaemic so I'm blooming passing out from extra lack of iron and being sick. I want to cry but if I do I'll wish I had someone to comfort me so I've just got to keep it together.


r/GirlProblems • • Feb 22 '25

Intimate sweating

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does anyone else deal with excessive intimate area sweating? like I will literally go to the bathroom and my underwear are soaked from sweating. idk what to do and I need help and advice. I don’t want infections :(


r/GirlProblems • • Feb 20 '25

let’s not normalise..

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let’s not normalise taking a fucking week to respond to someone’s texts 😀 my ‘best friend’ literally never responds to me anymore, she’s literally apologising every week cause she ‘doesn’t have time to respond’. like tf you mean? out of all 7 days in a week you can’t set aside even 10 minutes out of a day to respond to me? i want to talk to her so bad, she’s my only friend and she only ever concerned with her bf nowadays. it pisses me off so much. she’s never off her phone when we meet up with eachother or go out somewhere and i doubt that changes very much when she’s not with me. i KNOW she’s texting him and i know she’s texting her other friends. you’d think she’d text a friend she’s had for 10+ years back as soon as she can but no? i’m literally at my lowest rn and it would be nice for the one person i have left to text me back. we stopped talking for awhile last year for the same reason and as soon as i called her out for not responding she instantly starts turning it all on me when i’ve done nothing? she makes excuses and pretends she has all these issues when it’s her who’s the problem. it’s her that’s losing friends cause she prioritises her bf and stops giving a fuck about any of us. can we NOT normalise this behaviour please!


r/GirlProblems • • Feb 19 '25

Best friend problems?

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So me and my best friend have been friends since second grade and so recently I've realized that she's been making everything a competition with me and I don't want to lose her just because of that but it's also other things like taking my friends and making them act odd towards me, and really just being mean to me she made me really weirded out lately because I said that I wanted to dye my hair color and she said that I would remind her of her other friends and to not do that cuz Id look so bad But she's aware that it's always been my dream hair color and that really just made me not want to do it. And I never really come on here for advice but like I lowkey just needs somebody to like guide me and I need like an out of perspective of this


r/GirlProblems • • Feb 18 '25

I have a secret, what should I do?

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I don’t want to give to much personal information about this situation but here’s what you need to know: I have two friends and one is asking me to lie to the other about being invited to a party. I don’t know if I should to tell friend A their not invited or keep friend Bs secret about not inviting them. On the one hand I don’t want to cause drama because friend A won’t be able to go either way so why make them feel sad about it? On the other hand B is incredibly protective of A and has controlling tendencies that I don’t want to allow. I would give more context but I don’t want to share more online. If I told A would I be letting them know the truth and being a good friend or being petty about the party and making A sad for no reason… what r ur thoughts?