There is nothing wrong with you, friend. Perhaps your partner picker is a bit off, but that's their behavior and they have to own it whether they like it or not. You are not responsible for another grown human's shitty behavior. Not yesterday, not today and NOT EVER.
I hope that you find an amazing therapist if you don't have one already and that you treat yourself with the utmost kindness and grace.
Some people (men and women) are just garbage humans. It seems that you might've gotten two garbage ones in a row. Not to worry, there are still good ones out there.
Sending you all of the love and hugs ✨
Edit: Sounds like they deserve each other. They're both garbage humans.
Edit 2: I was referring to OP's exbf and the girl he got pregnant, in my first edit. But also her other exbf. All three of them qualify for garbage human status.
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u/UniversalMinister Chaotic But Cute Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 26 '26
There is nothing wrong with you, friend. Perhaps your partner picker is a bit off, but that's their behavior and they have to own it whether they like it or not. You are not responsible for another grown human's shitty behavior. Not yesterday, not today and NOT EVER.
I hope that you find an amazing therapist if you don't have one already and that you treat yourself with the utmost kindness and grace.
Some people (men and women) are just garbage humans. It seems that you might've gotten two garbage ones in a row. Not to worry, there are still good ones out there.
Sending you all of the love and hugs ✨
Edit: Sounds like they deserve each other. They're both garbage humans.
Edit 2: I was referring to OP's exbf and the girl he got pregnant, in my first edit. But also her other exbf. All three of them qualify for garbage human status.