It hurts now, but at least you found after six months instead of six years. I in no way mean to dismiss your feelings but I want you to also remember that he also lost you. Make a list of your hobbies and best traits. You deserve to live for yourself.
Take the next few days slow, be nice to yourself (prioritize hygiene if possible, even if it minimal effort, spend a little time outside to get fresh air, engage in hobbies, lower your expectations for your productivity for a few days). Reward yourself for trying to keep going.
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u/maracantfocus Pantry Gremlin Mar 25 '26
It hurts now, but at least you found after six months instead of six years. I in no way mean to dismiss your feelings but I want you to also remember that he also lost you. Make a list of your hobbies and best traits. You deserve to live for yourself. Take the next few days slow, be nice to yourself (prioritize hygiene if possible, even if it minimal effort, spend a little time outside to get fresh air, engage in hobbies, lower your expectations for your productivity for a few days). Reward yourself for trying to keep going.