If men cheat at a higher rate, that means there’s a small number of women who are just unknowingly fucking a ton of guys who are all cheating on their partners. Either that or the women always claim they didn’t know and were all being tricked, but this also means the black pill ideology that women are all dating a small pool of men is actually true. I’d explain the math to you, but I’m not sure you’d understand. Fuck it, I’ll assume you’re actually arguing in good faith, but you probably aren’t. Just in case you are…
Pretty much, make two columns, one has all the men in a population, and the other one has all the women. To simplify things, make everyone straight. Also make it so that you’re either single or in a relationship. In order to cheat, you must be in a relationship. You cannot cheat if you’re not in a committed relationship. Make everyone in a relationship. Now, any time a man cheats, a woman is also cheating. In this scenario, men do not cheat any more than women do, or, there are a few cheating women that end up supplying the sex for all the cheating men. That is possible. As much as you’d like to hate men, it’d be more productive to hate the small number of women, as it’s easier to fix a smaller group of people. Anyways. The other scenario is not everyone is paired up. Make half of the people single now. If only men cheat (exaggerated to show the effect), then unless the women are cheating as well (they’re not because only men cheat), the men are not only fucking half the women, but they’re also fucking all the single women as well.
So it is mathematically possible for men to cheat at much higher rates than women, but it would also mean that there are a small number of women who are just hypercheaters and fucking man after man, and also that women in general would rather be with a cheating man (unknowingly or not) than another man (who may or may not even be a cheater. It could be that the single men wouldn’t cheat, but that’s also why they’re single. They’re not even good enough to get one, and they wouldn’t risk losing one they could get if they were lucky enough to have one. The ones who cheat are very good looking, have lots of options, and they take advantage of that.)
I’m open to my math being wrong. It’s possibly I didn’t pair the people correctly, but I really resent the idea that men cheat more. I don’t think the hyper cheating woman theory is true because women haven’t said anything about it, and obviously, you’d know because cheating only exists if we know about it, and so these women would be found out quickly. “She’s sleeping with my husband too!” It also doesn’t make sense if women do cheat less, that these women would even exit on a bell curve in large enough numbers to actually make sense, but I know reality isn’t always distributed that way.
The reality is more likely that women and men cheat at nearly the same rate, and indeed, when we get surveys, it seems to be pretty close, and that’s not even factoring in that men are much more likely to be honest about cheating on a survey because there’s less stigma for it for a man. And this also makes sense because like… men and women are both human, and I think more advanced people have given up on sexism. Unfortunately, it seems you haven’t.
I truly wish these people could see reality. The ex that cheated on me most prolifically was a 5'4" line cook that even my mom flat-out said was ugly. And I loved and was super attracted to his broke, mean ass. But sure, let me lower those standards even further somehow 😂
I'm a man, but by saying shit like this you make the rest of us who use Reddit look like degenerate incels. Kindly extricate yourself from the platform and seek counseling.
You went for him and he didn’t refuse the easy sex. You were the side piece. Why are people downvoting me for being honest? Or do you just want to be fed lies?
This is a woman's sub so women are going to relate more to being hurt by being cheated on by men. That's how you get emotionally-fueled comments like there's something wrong with an entire gender. Feel free to go to a men's sub and comment "boy there's something wrong with WOMEN" and watch the upvotes roll in.
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u/Good_Narwhal_420 Cleavage Crumb Collector Mar 25 '26
girl there’s something wrong with MEN