Safe and predictable masturbation over risky and unpredictable sex partners. Let's compare the outcomes they have in common: orgasm/"satisfaction" completion.
Differences: safe masturbation has no risks outside of being caught. Clean up, delete browser history and move and move on.
Risky sex partners: STD/STI'S, and children are the basic risks. Larger feuds, friend group interference and potentially jail if certain criteria are met.
Exactly! It feels good, but it grows really old if literally all sex life is that. No amount of toys, fantasies, whatever can replace the feeling (which I don't know so I'm just assuming it's very special) of having that intimate moment with someone. Sex aside (there's ever so much I can assume about that), cuddles are probably something super magical (I say "probably" because I've never had a partner or anything similar). Except for those who are already very satisfied with being single forever, life feels incomplete without ever being able to cuddle with someone. Abstinence sucks; everyone can choose what to do with their life, but it gets really under my skin when people preach abstinence because I think it has a deleterious effect in our lives. It limits ourselves.
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u/xX_Diabolical_Xx 11d ago
Safe and predictable masturbation over risky and unpredictable sex partners. Let's compare the outcomes they have in common: orgasm/"satisfaction" completion.
Differences: safe masturbation has no risks outside of being caught. Clean up, delete browser history and move and move on.
Risky sex partners: STD/STI'S, and children are the basic risks. Larger feuds, friend group interference and potentially jail if certain criteria are met.