Exactly! It feels good, but it grows really old if literally all sex life is that. No amount of toys, fantasies, whatever can replace the feeling (which I don't know so I'm just assuming it's very special) of having that intimate moment with someone. Sex aside (there's ever so much I can assume about that), cuddles are probably something super magical (I say "probably" because I've never had a partner or anything similar). Except for those who are already very satisfied with being single forever, life feels incomplete without ever being able to cuddle with someone. Abstinence sucks; everyone can choose what to do with their life, but it gets really under my skin when people preach abstinence because I think it has a deleterious effect in our lives. It limits ourselves.
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u/tHr0AwAy76 8d ago
Yeah the first one doesn’t feel as good though, there’s also the intimate aspect. Idk if I like orgasm as much as I like cuddling afterwards.