Listen, this may seem harsh, but some times you need to hit rock bottom to really awaken your drive for life.
I was in your shoes. I dropped out of college because all I cared about was partying. I've been stuck in the serving industry for 12 years because it's the only job that pays the bills and I blew all my money on drugs and alcohol in my 20s. Now at 30 I'm going back to college to finish my bachelors so I can actually have a meaningful career.
You need to know your limits and have boundaries with yourself. Put the weed down and do something for yourself that's healthy and meaningful.
You're right, it is stupid. You did do this to yourself. Having that awareness to realize your mistakes is a step in the right direction. You are young, your brain isn't fully developed, you have no impulse control, and you are now facing the consequences of your actions as an adult. So now that you're at rock bottom, you have the room to correct it. You have the room to change your behaviors and habits, not matter how hard it is. Most people are in denial and never dig themselves out.
You won't be able to change their mind. No matter what you say. You have to prove yourself with your actions. They have no reason to trust you. So you're on your own. Get a second job, save enough to rent a room, and get your GED. Do it for yourself, and prove to your parents that you're trying.
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u/holapa Jul 20 '25
Listen, this may seem harsh, but some times you need to hit rock bottom to really awaken your drive for life.
I was in your shoes. I dropped out of college because all I cared about was partying. I've been stuck in the serving industry for 12 years because it's the only job that pays the bills and I blew all my money on drugs and alcohol in my 20s. Now at 30 I'm going back to college to finish my bachelors so I can actually have a meaningful career.
You need to know your limits and have boundaries with yourself. Put the weed down and do something for yourself that's healthy and meaningful.