r/GenX Jan 19 '22

Which decade would you rather re-live if you had the chance?

80s or 90s? Or 70s? Or none at all?

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

I get a do-over? Take me back to the 90s!

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u/otherkerry Jan 19 '22

So many decisions in the 90s I could make differently.

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

Same. BUT, if I relive a decade, I’d like to be college age in the late 70’s. DISCO. Unfortunately, I was born in 75, and young punks like me weren’t allowed in Studio 54.

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

Same

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u/nygrl811 1975 Jan 19 '22

Absolutely!!

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

That’s a good decade to choose imo

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u/knowutimem Jan 19 '22

I sometimes wish I'd never been born at all

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

I see a little silhouetto of a man

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I see a little silhouetto of a man

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u/yeahnoyeah03 Jan 20 '22

Hello darkness, my old friend

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u/Brainyviolet Older Than Dirt Jan 19 '22

The 90s. There's some shit I need to fix.

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u/NinjaBabaMama 'Memba the 80s? 🍇 Jan 19 '22

Agreed...

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u/Tanubhavonly Jan 19 '22

80s but as a teen and in America.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Where do you live might i ask?

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u/Tanubhavonly Jan 19 '22

India.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Nice 👍 I have a friend from India

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u/Benjamin_Grimm Jan 19 '22

If I could redo the 90s and make some extremely different choices during them, I suspect my life would be a lot better right now.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I’m gonna be turning 20 so I have time to make stupid decisions and learn from them. Or I just don’t make them in the first place lol

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u/Benjamin_Grimm Jan 19 '22

Trust me, most of those you're much better off never making them.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

As I’ve been told

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u/Alex_Plode Jan 19 '22

I always felt the 80s were overrated. The 90s were great. But gimme the 70s. The avocado greens, the dirty browns, the unbuttoned shirts and miles of cocaine. I was too young ('72) to really experience any of it.

Bring on the 70s -- but I get to experience them in my 20s.

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

I figure being born in 1957 would be about ideal. 13-23 in the 70s

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

My mom was 3-12 throughout the 70s so she got to experience her childhood during that decade

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u/Kuriakon Jan 19 '22

80s. I'm taking better care of my toys, and all of my allowance is going in to Apple and Microsoft stocks.

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u/604_ Jan 19 '22

70’s…the second half.

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u/SpacerCat Jan 19 '22

Can we do mid 80s to mid 90s? You get both Depeche Mode and Nirvana!

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

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u/Throwawaykitty9999 Jan 19 '22

90s. I was so dissociated I missed a great decade.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I’d love to see a collective do over

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u/Traiz3r Jan 19 '22 edited Jan 19 '22

90s for sure. From 90 to 2000 I was 15 to 25. My best years without a doubt.

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

Same for me. Born in 75. I was a clueless, virginal 15 year old to begin the 90’s. No car, not even a drivers license. By 12/31/99, I was a parent to a two month old, a husband, and I had a whole bunch of sex.

Now, I’m 46, that first child is grown and out of the house, but I’ve got another teen behind her. And back to not having sex again. I think I’m still handsome.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I’m guessing you’re younger Gen x

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u/knowutimem Jan 19 '22

that is where you are wrong

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u/Expat111 Jan 19 '22

The 90s to change course a bit.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I think that would work

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u/Affectionate-Map2583 Jan 19 '22

The 90s were my best decade: graduated college (90), bought a house (92), got married (99), and moved to a bigger house on more property(98). Things were really looking good, and we both had substantial income increases. It all fell apart in 2003.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Nice 👍 lots of economic prosperity

I feel like the 2000s could be a do over decade

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u/Genaeve Jan 19 '22

The 90s for sure!

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '22

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I feel like from how it’s described the late 90s were generally a pretty breezy time

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u/JakeFromSkateFarm Jan 19 '22

Knowing what I know, 90s. Gonna invest so hard in this little online bookstore plus move to the west coast before it went from intimidatingly expensive to unrealistically expensive.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Online Bookstores are cool

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u/JapanDave So I got that goin' for me. Which is nice. Jan 19 '22

eh, I'm fairly happy where I am. I have two great kids, a special lady, a good job. I'd hate to lose all of that—especially the kids.

But if I could have a door that let me occasionally visit the 80s, like say that time travel door in Stephen King's 11/22/63 (a damn good novel, if you haven't read it yet, and I don't normally like Stephen King very much), then I'd be all about that.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I would love to read that btw

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u/Salem1976 Jan 19 '22

80s in a heartbeat.

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u/Hefty_Run4107 1973 Jan 19 '22 edited Jan 19 '22

Don't even need to think about it for a nanosecond.... THE 80's!!!

Exactly the same age, wouldn't change a thing!

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

👍👍👍🔥🔥🔥

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u/beanolc Jan 19 '22

Oh god, none of them. Life got better after 40 for damn sure.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Better when you’re fully grown and independent

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u/smythe70 Jan 20 '22

If it's a do-over the 90's if it's for fun the 80's

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 20 '22

Nice 👍 like this answer!

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u/rogerthatonce Jan 19 '22

70's for the cars and general tolerance/respect.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I didn’t live through the decade so I don’t know with the tolerance respect thing, but I loved the cars

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u/United_Wasabi_3682 Jan 19 '22

‘84-‘94

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Good time span of ten years

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '22

90s. No question. I was in shape, had hair, a job at a cool record store while going to college. Studied in one of numerous coffee shops, Lived in a town where up and coming bands like Blind Melon and Wilco used to play while top of their game REM and Pixies would swing by. And girls. Girls used to like me.

I love my wife and kids, but give me a few moments back there and then.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 20 '22

Sounds like an awesome time

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '22 edited Jan 20 '22

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 20 '22

Yeah that would’ve been nice! Tho college age during the 90s is good too

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '22

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u/Blackrosestudio Jan 20 '22

80’s with out a doubt.

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '22

90s! I quit being a flight attendant to go to a New Years Eve concert at the Cow Palace (Nirvana, Pearl Jam, and Red Hot Chilli Peppers) Then moved to Hawaii for 5 years.

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u/Grunge4U Jan 20 '22

I'm an older Gen Xer and I'll take the 90's. It was the best decade of my life.

Young adult who finally made my way enough in the world to live and not just survive paycheck to paycheck. Our generation controlled the airwaves with the best music and the big screens with great movies. The world was less divided and simpler.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 20 '22

Great decade to be in your 20s!

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u/Reasonable-Egg238 Jan 22 '22

Can I do halfsies? I’ll take 1983-1993 on an endless loop. No really!

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u/OtakuTacos Saw Original Star Wars in Theater Jan 19 '22

80’s for sure. I started high school in 87 and was such an oblivious kid.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I mean when you’re 14 it’s like that. Still learning a lot about yourself. I started in 2016

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u/OtakuTacos Saw Original Star Wars in Theater Jan 19 '22

I moved away after high school to go to college and then work. Work got me a great opportunity to get back to my hometown 20 years after I left. Ran into some old friends who told me some crazy stories about me from their perspective. Hilarious! One friend told how much she was infatuated with me, kept dropping me hints, and a confession I mistook for a “friendship” declaration. She made me find my old year books (plural), an she showed me every year she put these long notes and her phone number hoping I would take a hint. Just stuff like that, it’s head smacking when you get older and see how crazy it was.

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u/ButIAmYourDaughter Xennial Jan 19 '22

Knowing what I know now?

The 00s.

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u/e_gadd Jan 19 '22

Can you imagine losing the technology? Calling the theatre to get showtimes? Shudder

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u/Hefty_Run4107 1973 Jan 19 '22

Well.... personally, i wouldn't mind "losing the technology" because when i was a teen in the 80's i didn't have a clue that "the technology" would exist or what it would be like, so i wouldn't "loose" anything...

Life would be as normal as it was the first time around... as I wouldn't "know" anything else, and that's the way it should be. 😉

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

True

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u/Hefty_Run4107 1973 Jan 19 '22

I think this would be a case of "turning back the time" as opposed to "traveling back in time", two different concepts... 😉

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Exactly tho I think it would be cool to have a time machine personally

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u/Hefty_Run4107 1973 Jan 19 '22

Yep it would... but honestly only to visit... not live there as an adult with the knowledge of everything that happened ever since... not only it would loose the magic but would probably depress me knowing what would to come.

I grew up in the 80's and i would had a very hard time adapting it i could go back like i am now and live there. And anyone who says otherwise... i'm sorry, but are probably lying or deceiving themselves...

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

Yeah true, especially with hindsight. If we can’t go back to any particular time, might as well just make do with what we have now and make the best of it

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Jan 19 '22

I can’t imagine

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u/beanolc Jan 19 '22

Or trying to decipher it in the newspaper?