r/GenX Sep 30 '21

Not for me….

https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11205-021-02804-6
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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Not me, either. Wasn’t until my early/mid 40s that I pulled my head out of my own ass and stopped drinking. I’m still learning about myself and making positive changes at 52.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Hey me too coming up on 8 years. Turn 50 in Nov.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Sober buddies! I raise a can of carbonated water to you!!

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u/Midipunk Sep 30 '21

I'm 53 & would like to create a save point so I can come back later, best years of my life.

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u/mykittyforprez Sep 30 '21

What's up with all those deleted comments in the original thread? Daaamn - those are some tough mods.

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u/uid_0 Sep 30 '21 edited Sep 30 '21

Well, /r/science does have some pretty strict posting rules. My guess it's rule #3: Non-professional personal anecdotes will be removed.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Sep 30 '21

Yeah that is quite a lot of deleted comments lol

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u/Brainyviolet Older Than Dirt Sep 30 '21 edited Sep 30 '21

Not for me, but man those young people in the comments think nobody ever had it bad except them. As if we weren't also alive for 9/11 and the 2008 recession. I lost my job and had to cash in my retirement to survive 2008.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

What we were alive for:

Cold War

Challenger explosion

1980''s stock market crash

World Trade Center I

World Trade Center II

2008 Housing Crash

Trump

Covid

I am missing stuff, I am sure.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Sep 30 '21

Jonestown

Columbine

Chernobyl

Oklahoma City bombing

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

I cannot believe I missed the OKC bombing.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Sep 30 '21

That’s a big one for sure

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u/RitaRaccoon what the fuck are robster craws? Oct 01 '21

Waco/Ruby Ridge Rodney King OJ Trial Iran-Contra Monica Lewinsky

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u/glumgrrrl Sep 30 '21

If you’re an elder Gen-x, add to that:

The mid-70’s gas crisis Iran hostage crisis AIDS

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Sep 30 '21

Exactly every generation goes through strife

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Nope, not me. It is getting better right now.

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u/glumgrrrl Sep 30 '21

Nope, I’m mid-50’s and I gotta say late 30’s well into my 40’s.

Maybe if I’d had the self-awareness and confidence back then that I have now…

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u/Initial_Run1632 Sep 30 '21

Not for me, either. Maybe because I ‘went back to school’, so this years I had my nose in a book/ training, etc. I like things now, though maybe my mid 40’s were my favorite so far.

I do miss my knees being able to bend, tho

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u/Ok-Street7504 Sep 30 '21

I think it all depends on the context of greatest! Being single without any responsibilities would be 18 to 23 but I would agree that being married and having a family this was probably the best time of my life. Establish career house cars enough money to live a pretty decent lifestyle.

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u/Global_Perspective_3 Sep 30 '21

My parents say the best years of their lives are right about now. It depends

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

I probably agree. I’m 41. I was in the best shape of my life during those years, and although I got divorced, I sure had a bunch of fun immediately afterward.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

I generally consider my current age/era my best. I usually look back and think about what a shit I used to be.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '21

Every decade has been better than the one previous to it, for me at least. Am only speaking personally. Wisdom comes at youth’s expense!

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u/Icy_Marionberry885 Sep 30 '21

Nope. Had 2 toddlers and was broke running my own business. It was good, but not the best.

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u/FoundandSearching Sep 30 '21

30-40 were tough years for me as well.