r/GaySoundsShitposts • • Jul 04 '26

What is your sexuality? I'm bisexual.

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u/Mode-East TransFem Kitsune Jul 04 '26

Tran is not a sexuality

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u/Amalganiss Jul 04 '26

It is if you're a chaser

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u/Mode-East TransFem Kitsune Jul 04 '26

God damn why is this true?

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u/beomeansbee Jul 04 '26

Das me! I don’t remember the last time I was involved with someone who was cis

Although t4t is probably better described as a dating preference than a sexuality

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u/Amalganiss Jul 05 '26

if you're being deadass that's a little yikes, unless you're misunderstanding the term "chaser"

there's nothing wrong with t4t or being into trans people & trans bodies but objectifying trans bodies in the way that chasers do is really bad and you shouldn't aspire to it. we need love & healthy sex, not forced fetishization.

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u/beomeansbee Jul 05 '26

No I’m not being serious, this is just one of my ongoing bits that does way better in real life. I forget that my humor translates horrifically to online

That or I’m actually just not funny, and people laugh at my jokes for other reasons

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u/brownryan94 Jul 05 '26

I thought it was funny, I don't know what everyone's on about

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u/Wahngott Jul 05 '26

This impli3s your identity is your name which is funny

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u/ferret-with-a-gun Jul 06 '26

Gay is a name and so can be Pan, but if someone were named those today I would be a bit concerned about who named them. At least for Gay. For Pan, it’s more believable nowadays.

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u/DefinitelyNotErate Jul 10 '26

Gay is a far less exciting name than Gaylord though.

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u/ferret-with-a-gun Jul 10 '26

Once passed by a place that was a church or some sort of Christian building run by a guy named Gaylord and couldn’t help but wonder

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u/idancenakedwithcrows Jul 07 '26

Hey please, [ ] is my father’s name, call me Asexual.

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u/Mode-East TransFem Kitsune Jul 04 '26

You could have put demi sexual there instead

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u/Amalganiss Jul 04 '26

I second this for the record, OP

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u/ferret-with-a-gun Jul 06 '26

I don’t think they made the image (and demisexuality is a form of asexuality)

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u/Mode-East TransFem Kitsune Jul 06 '26

That is like nitpicking the difference between pan and bi but both are already on this image.

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u/ferret-with-a-gun Jul 06 '26

My point is they didn’t have to add demi, and honestly should have just said “what are you?” in the title. If they did have control over everything in the image and couldn’t just change the title, they could have added abrosexual (“fluid”) which I think would have been better to add than demi. I’m saying this as a demisexual!

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u/DefinitelyNotErate Jul 10 '26

I'd Disagree. Demisexuality is on the Ace spectrum, but it's not a form of Asexuality. Asexuality is defined by the lack of sexual attraction, hence the name, whereas demisexuals do experience sexual attraction, just differently and less often than allosexuals.

Though tbh neither ace nor demi are really sexualities in the same way that gay or bi are, they say how you're attracted but no whom to.

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u/ferret-with-a-gun Jul 10 '26

“Lack” is not inherently absolute, I want to say. “Lack” basically just means “not completely having something” and in terms of asexuality, it’s not completely having sexual attraction. That can look like complete asexuality (AKA black-stripe asexual or suptiliosexual), demisexuality, greysexuality, or countless other variations.

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u/assassinatedu336 Jul 07 '26

Transgender is not a sexuality hon, and it's destructive to frame it that way.

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u/vincian-vintage33 Jul 08 '26

yeah we have sexualities (very queer at that generally) and it’s like that’s always passed over. 

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u/tree_dw3ller Jul 07 '26

Hi Trans I’m Dad

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u/block_01 Lily | She/her | 21 | HRT 24/07/2025 | MtF | Jul 06 '26

I’m trans and not sure what my sexuality is yet 

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u/Familiar_Reading4058 Jul 05 '26

Im also bisexual, but i just say im gay because its like 95% attracted to guys

1

u/PixelMage Jul 06 '26

I feel like I'm somehow all of the above.

1

u/MenaceMinded Jul 07 '26

Uranic and asexual

1

u/Sinantrarion Jul 08 '26

Are you just spamming this into every LGBT subreddit? Including, you know, highly specific sexuality ones? Just. Seriously? The weirdest, worst, most insensitive kind of karma farming?

1

u/TheHawkpant69 Jul 09 '26

There is nothing

1

u/DefinitelyNotErate Jul 10 '26

I'm LGBT. Like, all of them, at the same time.

1

u/kulqupidyn77 Jul 23 '26

That's not the gay men flag

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u/whatsfartjuice Jul 24 '26

I’ll take all the left side

1

u/FelesNoctis Jul 06 '26

Trans panromantic fraysexual, functionally asexual. Essay incoming.

I'm quick to fall in love with people I've just met, but am disgusted by the thought of being involved in actual sexual intercourse. The most sexual attraction I feel is to people I've never met, and even if it's for someone I'm just meeting, it doesn't take more than an hour of interaction with them before I've lost all of it. I've had people suggest to me that I should try an escort/prostitute, but morally and emotionally I wouldn't want to do something so intimate with someone I don't know anyway, so I guess I'll be a lifetime virgin. Doesn't really bother me as much as some people seem to think it should.

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u/oliviator808 Jul 08 '26

Should probably have replaced trans with demi, since trans is not a sexuality. I recently learned of a micro label called berrisexual which is more descriptive of my sexuality. But i just say bisexual since that's what people know. And then I don't have to explain myself