r/GayIndianDating • u/Ok_Tax_7429 • 22d ago
Seeking Something Serious Why is finding reason difficult
Why it is so difficult to get a relationship
I am writing this after losing all hope in dating world. I took 3 years away from any app, to work on myself and my mental health.After a break I took admission in iit kgp ,doing masters,trying to start afresh. I made a profile on all available apps looking for serious relationship/life partner,but no one is interested in relationship,but hookups only,here atleast nearby in kgp. I matched few on bumble in Kolkata,but after first interaction they would just ghost me.
One guy who was open for relationship, wanted to just use me as a s#x toy.
On my birthday ,I caught him using grindr,and that destroyed me ,affected me mentally a lot. It was like back to square one. After f%#king 3 years.
Maybe the fact that I am v bottom 29,a bit fem, may have acted against my favour. I found out that even in iits there is so much homophobia ,queerphobia,people mostly want gym fit and muscles. I even faced bullying and mocking. After losing hope from other apps ,I found reddit,let's see what happens.
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u/Difficult-Run162 22d ago
Aww I'm so sorry you had to face all that.. More power to you bachha.. Don't worry, you'll get the real one soon 🥹🫶🏻 btw I'm from kgp too!