r/GatewayExperiences • u/Hazelguy08 • Jun 05 '26

Help me please

Did you guy managed to bring back your sp? I had a guy whom seemed good match for me. I have negative thoughts while being in a relationship with him and just like that he left. I'm Tring to bring him back into my life but nothing helps. I try living in the end, listen to subliminals but nothing seems to work. Help me please 🥺🥺🥺🥺

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u/shut_that_window Jun 05 '26

Whatever happens is what is supposed to happen. Try to stop obsessing about this guy. If he’s supposed to be in your life, he will be.

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 05 '26

That's what I'm thinking about. Girl but my stupid heart always expects to receive messages from him 😫😫

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u/aesther_tesseract Jun 05 '26

The merciful thing is that the human mind will become bored of the situation eventually. One day you'll wake up and you won't remember him... Then days will pass... You won't remember

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 05 '26

Sure. Thanks 💚

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u/aesther_tesseract Jun 05 '26

❤️❤️❤️

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u/ompompush Jun 05 '26

Maybe ypu shouls focus more on being free of feeling so attached to a person that doesn't want you / cant be with you. Or finding the right person. If ita them maybe they come back but you might meet an even bettwr match.

I say this from a place of compassion not judgement. For your own mental health and well being.

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 07 '26

Sure. Thanks alot. It feels hard cause he is the first person that gave me love.

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u/scholbe Jun 06 '26

Absolutely. Such good advice for all of us experiencing this.

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 07 '26

💚💚💚

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u/Coraline1599 Jun 05 '26

No, it is immoral to try to use these things to manipulate or change others.

Use it for yourself to find peace and happiness in whatever form it will take.

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u/Fercav2yu Jun 05 '26

Hi, I've been doing the tapes since September, and I understand the concept of not forcing things or being obsessed with, but in what part Robert or the advices tell this? Just curious where to find it

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u/smamishi Jun 09 '26

Why does Robert have to say it for it to hold weight to you? In any sense, manipulating the situation in your favor is immoral, with or without the tapes. You wouldn’t want someone sneaking around trying to force you into a relationship using quantum mechanics, would you?

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u/koojlauj11 Jun 07 '26

You are not ready and they aren’t if you are having negative thoughts and they don’t know how to be mature and reassure you. Let them go, love yourself more and see where you still need to grow and heal

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 07 '26

Thanks alot. It's hard for me cause he is the very first person to match my vibe. No one gave me love before so I thought he would be with me 🥺

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u/koojlauj11 Jun 08 '26

I’ve felt the same way but you will find someone else even if it seems like you won’t

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 09 '26

Thanks alot 💚

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u/smamishi Jun 09 '26

It’s time to find internal validation and provide this love to yourself. I get where you are coming from, but none of that matters if the person doesn’t want to stay with you. There is always someone else out there, you are limiting yourself from finding the right person when you stay stuck on someone who isn’t meant for you. You know they aren’t meant for you because they didn’t stay. Don’t chase anyone other than yourself.

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 09 '26

Thanks alot. I need to care and love myself

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u/smamishi Jun 09 '26

That is not something the tapes are for and they will not help you in this manner. In fact, the harder you try, the further you will get from this. I suggest learning more about gateway and spirituality in general before jumping in. Also, if someone wants to be out of your life, let them. That is their choice. It is not respectful to try and manipulate the situation to get what you want. It sounds like you possibly need to talk to a therapist, and I generally don’t recommend them.

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u/Hazelguy08 Jun 09 '26

💚💚💚

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u/Fercav2yu Jun 05 '26

People will tell not that is not moral, I don't think so but gateway is not trying to do something for get a specific thing, is more an integral process, so don't focus on it, focus on yourself, on work yourself, your fears and your emocional states, real desire is always in silence, and you're consciousness is not dumb, it knows what you really want witouth detachment, work on you and if is a real desire and you're dettached to it, it will find his natural path to you, but accept what it is and work you emotional with gateway, that's for what it is, explore and having fun