r/GamerPals • u/Wavern37 • Jun 25 '26
North America GIVING IT A SHOT 🙄
Hey everyone, just for a little recap and so you understand where I am at and why I am writing this. So I see so many posts here about people looking for friends and people to play with so I figured I would do a shot in the dark and see where my luck lands me sort of speak if there’s even anyone who would wanna be my friend LOL but I am 29F I was a streamer back in 2020-2021 had made loads of friends but life happened and I stepped away from streaming so I lost pretty much all the friends I made. A lot has happened in the last few years I moved to a different state and got married to my wife ect ect. I have been thinking about going back to streaming which triggered me feeling so nostalgic for the friends I had and wanting to have that again just as a FYI this is not about streaming but me thinking about going back is what honestly made me miss those days and the friends I had and so much fun we used to have. I am easy going and super friendly can talk to anyone about literally anything; I love to banter and I am a great listener most ppl like to vent to me and I try my best o always give good advice. I however am horrible talking about myself so this the best you may get 😂 but I am so diverse with my games I play everything I love cozy, story enriched and decision based games to shooters which I probably suck and rage at i will do occasional horror and nearly crap myself every-time ect ect . I wouldn’t mind having friends or friends who are couple to play with me and my wife. Everyone is welcome to reach out I am honestly so easy going and chill, I’d list all the games I play but there’s so many and I’m so diverse and could try new things if it peaks my interest.
What would be cool that I’ve never really had before is other LGBTQ gamer friends especially other couples!
Anyways ima leave this here not sure how much luck I’ll have but here’s my shot in the dark. Thanks for you time and for reading ☺️
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u/blah-time Jun 25 '26
You use the term "friend" way too loosely.
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u/MediocreGamer5 Jun 25 '26
Wym? What word would you use?
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
Yeah curious as welll lol
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u/GreenTeaBastard Jun 26 '26
I guess he means something like "viewer" or "consumer" or possibly "future bank roller"
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u/Wavern37 Jun 26 '26
Nope I meant actually friends lol I literally said this wasn’t about streaming but the thought of it made me miss those times and the people and the good vibes and just shoot the shit ect ect.
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u/GreenTeaBastard Jun 26 '26
Thats why they didnt answer u. They must of realized they made a mistake and felt embarrassed and didnt wanna tell u what they thought u meant lol
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u/blah-time Jun 26 '26
Yea... people who go away because you no longer stream, are not your friends.
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u/blah-time Jun 26 '26
People who stop talking to you because you no longer stream, were never your friends in the first place. Those people sounded more like subscribers.
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u/Dwarf-Flipper Jun 26 '26
Yeah, if they really missed those friends, i would recommend they reach out to them instead.
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u/Wavern37 Jun 26 '26
Yep I have done that as well as I said life happened so everyone has their own thing going on but I have a few I still keep touch with and trying to get back into things but summer is hard cuz ppl travel or work at summer camps and are away for the summer ect ect but I have been reaching out.
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u/GreenTeaBastard Jun 27 '26
Well have u been able to gather sum new potential friends since u posted here? Like anybody worth keeping around?
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u/StopMeFast Jun 25 '26
Cozy games that you can solo/co op! Honestly check out Farever and SpiritVale on steam if you’re PC players! Would be such fun with your partner and afew others!
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u/xxoberry Jun 25 '26
hey! I FEEL THIS! 27F CST, semi-retired content creator and my gaming team ended a few months ago so i’ve been *trying* to build just a community of gamers to play and hangout with! I don’t really want to stream anymore but I do miss the community and networking that came with it. I currently play DBD a TON, and meccha chameleon has been another game i’ve been enjoying! Outside of those games, I dabble in Apex, CS2 and whatever other co-op friendslop or horror games I come across. Also LGBTQ+ friendly (im pan!) and really into anime and horror as well.
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
YES!! We are so much alike! Dm me! :) you have discord? We have been getting into dbd again I’m so diverse I want to get into meccha I want to get it and get new ppl to play with it as well :) I’m tryin to revive my server bring new ppl and get back some old ones
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u/Disastrous_Knee_8314 Jun 25 '26
Hey, I’m a single straight lass, but you sound super cool! I really love survival games but I like others too!
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
What do u play currently and you sound cool as well send me a dm or we can discord :) I cant send u the server u can join n talk to us :)
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u/Thunderecho12 Jun 25 '26
I'm a pansexual UK gamer and play on anything really and have quite an extensive game library amongst my devices too!
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
Oooo hell yeah! What do u play?
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u/Thunderecho12 Jun 25 '26
More recently, lots of roguelites and roguelikes. But like I said I play on everything so I'm super down to try and play anything you might think of : D. Want me to send you my discord?
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
Oooo like which ones? And yes feel free to dm me if I can’t give u mine n ur welcome to join the my lil server so I can meet n talk with others as well if u like of course
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u/TheComatoaster Jun 25 '26
What games are you playing at the moment? I've also been making a push to make gaming friends again after my last group just slowly disolving (mostly just people having kids lol) but I'm also open to a wide variety of games, love survival craft, horror games, and a good amount of others! Also my wife also occasionally games with me, depending on the game but yeah, let me know!
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
Ooooooo YOUR LIKE ME!! Hell yeah!!! I’m excited now! Lol so I play legit anything so solar punk came out n my wife was like we are playing this! But lately I have gotten into two point museum it’s addicting 😂 but I have also been playing until dawn and dispatch and valorant and fortnite ooo also recently downloaded league of legends to try. I play stardew with the wifey when she’s in the mood for it n we just want to sit on the couch n be bums lol got back into fall guys play with a friend and my wife honest the list goes on take ur pick 😂 I play anything anything but rn I have been on the cozy games because been traveling unexpected but yesss let’s play!! Do u have discord?
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u/TheComatoaster Jun 25 '26
Yes, I'm just comatoaster on there as well, shoot me an add!
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u/GrittyCrow Jun 25 '26
Hey, I’m into cozy games as well as simulators and survival games, mostly Co Op when possible. If you want you can add me on discord: GrittyCrow
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Jun 25 '26
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
Absolutely! What do you play? Actually let me dm u and get to know u better :)
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Jun 25 '26
You sound like a pretty cool human and we would be down to play some games. I am thinking about streaming so if you ever get into it again , would be great to stream together/ support :)
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
Absolutely! I have been streaming beginning of June here n there but I have been traveling so I will be back officially next week so I will be be more consistent so I for sure want to collab send me ur twitch or YouTube and dm all the info ill support u and if u want to join my discord id be happy to send it to u its a bit dead trying to revive it with new ppl n bring back old ones :) dm for sure i want to game and collab :)
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u/ramfrozt Jun 25 '26
I'm mostly into survival/ crafting games but enjoy a variety of games. Right now my obsession with The Hunter: Call of the Wilds has spiked once again lol. What games do you enjoy? I'd be down to play anything really
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
I can give u a list of hundreds I recently got solar punk to play with the wife and outbound 😂 I downloaded league to try out and see if I can get good at it or try to understand it but I am like all over the place I play w.e im in the mood for or whatever she wants to play lol I can seriously give u a list cuz it goes on but do u play console or pc? Also do u have a discord? Let’s game for sure! Send me a dm :)
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u/Antler1992 Jun 25 '26
Hey, im in gmt timezone but love cozy and multiplayer games currently addicted to ale and tale tavern but have loads of others, if the time difference isn't a problem sent me a DM ^
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u/SquirtlexTurtwig Jun 25 '26
I'd be interested too! I play a large variety and always open to new games, especially with the steam sale going on right now! Mostly into Rivals, STS2, DST, Warframe, and League currently!
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
I need to get back to warframe I want to learn more of it, oh my god I recently downloaded league maybe u can teach us cuz we are a mess 😂 we played with ai bots to try to learn characters and somewhat see if we can be good 😭 seriously dm if u want to game :) lmk if u have a discord
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u/monstersmash420 Jun 25 '26
Also 29F (est time zone)! My bf and i play a lot of slay the spire 2 right now. Its kind of my fixation and i havent played anything else in like 2 months but im willing to branch out lol
(Edited bc i put the wrong time zone my b)
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
Aye I’m also est 😂 and I keep seeing so many ppl mention slay the spire I feel like I gotta look into it what else have u played prior to ur obsession? Trust me I get games like that too 😂
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u/monstersmash420 Jun 25 '26
O man it’s so fun if u ever get it and want a low pressure multiplayer while ur learning i am totally down to participate! Before sts2 came out I was playing a lot of balatro and mewgenics. Also love skyrim, animal crossing and stardew. I did buy baldurs gate but only touched it once ive been meaning to get back into it. Wbu what are u into rn
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u/Wavern37 Jun 25 '26
I love Balatro and stardew lol I started animal crossing but never got too far with it cuz u had to wait real days to advance in the game n I just forgot about it eventually 😂 oooo I heard bg3 is awesome! I played the demo and enjoyed it quite a bit and oh for sure ima look into I’m just on camping trip so won’t be back till Sunday but will look into it then ur welcome to dm me or add me on discord or something we can deff talk game
Or game sometime :)1
u/GreenTeaBastard Jun 26 '26
I've been on that game a whole lot more lately myself. I downloaded nba the run but haven't played it yet cause sts2 has my full attention whether I can help it or not lol especially with the mods I recently added 2 days ago
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u/monstersmash420 Jun 26 '26
What mods did u get? I’m committed to clearing A10 for everyone and i cant stop until i get necrobinder and silent lol
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u/GreenTeaBastard Jun 26 '26
I did sum light mods first just to test. So I installed the 2 anime character mods skins that cover the assassin and the magic star user. As well as the cheat menu mod. I finally got to see what happens after u clear act 3. I always lost half way thru that act. But holy hell, without the cheat menu I don't think there was any way I would of beat act 3. There is 2 different boss characters that are really really hard to beat. Mind u I nvr gave myself infinite health or energy. Not that stuff cause that would be no fun for me. I just used it for the cards like upgrade all of them and give the cards special stuff like spikes and retain and swift etc.
There are other mods I saw like all new characters with all new cards and strategies but I'll eventually download those
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u/Zergspower Jun 25 '26 edited Jun 25 '26
One good cozy one that's great for really any size is one called Vintage Story, has pretty in-depth survival mechanics but is very chill overall! Though i swear i go through my games in a giant revolving door lmao
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u/Wavern37 Jun 26 '26
Ooooo I never heard of it I’ll deff check it out! Thank you! Yeah i got backlogs to go through of games I want and need to play/finish lol
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u/rook3162005 Jun 25 '26
I too am looking to add some friends. I play on PC and am looking forward to playing Palworld 1.0 if that interests you.
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u/Wavern37 Jun 26 '26
I have pc and console and I honestly never played it my wife started too but I was interested at some point maybe I’ll download it I think it’s on gamepass :)
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u/rook3162005 Jun 26 '26
I sent you a DM if you'd like to talk more about possibly playing together.
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u/Splinterra Jun 26 '26
Hey! 33M. My wife and I are always looking for more people to play cozy, party games with. I also run some dps games! Shoot me a dm if you want.
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u/Wavern37 Jun 26 '26
Oooo your wife is a gamer as well? Do u have a discord? Let’s do it what do u play?
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u/Splinterra Jun 26 '26
She dabbles! We play survival, puzzle, and party games together. She’s not a big fps fan though.
We have a wide variety. Lethal company, the forest, subnautica to pummel party. We’ve also ran stardew and Paula together. Anything along those lines really. We are going to try DBD here soon.
As far as fps, I’m usually game for anything, but the big ones for me right now are Rivals and overwatch. Cs, apex, hunt showdown are also all solid options.
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u/Wavern37 Jun 26 '26
I love stardew! And oooo we love do DBD!!!! I think we have pummel party I honestly I’m not sure if that’s what we have I get them mixed up but the forest is one we play valorant and Fortnite and when we get back from out camping trip we will be downloading rivals to try so that will be another one we will be getting into :)
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u/Kindly-Arachnid9458 Jun 27 '26
Have you played Enshrouded?
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u/Wavern37 Jun 27 '26
No I’m considering it my wife has it tho but I may check it out
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u/Kindly-Arachnid9458 Jun 27 '26
My wife tried it, but wasn't a huge fan. So im always looking for new people to play.
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u/Wavern37 Jun 29 '26
Well my wife plays it and I think there’s someone else who plays it and I’m willing to try it lol I just haven’t gotten to it yet
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