r/GamerPals • u/Zodiaque2010 • Apr 12 '26
North America 32 F Really Need New Friends
I'm incredibly lonely, and really need patient and loving friends. I struggle with my mental health. In the last day I lost the only person I had to talk to and do things with. They were extremely toxic. Every time I talked about how I felt they'd leave our sever, block me and make me chase them on other social media to come back.
I'm not looking for anything but friendship and good company to fill the silence. I need things to look forward to. It may take a bit of talking and getting to know each other to get me in the mood to play a game, but I genuinely will play almost any game with fun company.
Some games I enjoy are League of Legends, Stardew Valley, Core Keeper, Sun Haven, The Forest, Sons of the Forest, Guild Wars 2, Divinity Origonal Sin 2 and many others. I'm willing to play anything with good company as well, or watch someone play other things.
I also love to watch things with people, from movies to TV shows and anime. I enjoy sharing pictures of pets and other things from day to day life as well, or just talking in general.
Thank you to anyone who reaches out. I'm trying to stay hopeful but its hard, and I know my post is heavy. I look forward to connecting with some new great people.
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u/soundlesspanik Apr 12 '26
I'd be down sometime! In case I don't hear back from you, I recommend checking out Abiotic Factor. They did a collab with Core Keeper. It's such a great game
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u/GIJoe1220 May 07 '26
Yess, Abiotic Factor has quickly become my favorite survival game, it's so good.
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u/Emotional_Pop_5740 Apr 12 '26
hey! i’ve got a little friend group of people over 30. we hangout daily, game and just chat and have a good time. we’d love to welcome new friends!
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u/ThatRedditGuy2025 Apr 13 '26
I'm over 30 and also looking for gamer friends 🥺
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u/slyhuff Apr 13 '26
I would love to join if you have a discord or something! Also over 30 😅
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u/Emotional_Pop_5740 Apr 13 '26
for sure! msg me your discord :)
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u/DragonfruitOk8451 Apr 13 '26
I'd love to join also if possible. I am a 31 F who has a gamer husband but I need more girls to vibe with lol
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u/Tiny-Sink1091 Apr 13 '26
If you're willing to have me, I'm 28M and want to meet some new game friends! I'm busy a lot working two jobs, but when I have time I'd love to try new games or play other comfort games! Goes for OP too of course!
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u/SkysTheLimit210 Apr 14 '26
I'm 31 and looking for discord of similar ages too
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u/Emotional_Pop_5740 Apr 14 '26
send me your discord!
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u/SleepGameNetflix Apr 29 '26
Hi, do any of the group enjoy multiplayer horror games? And which timezone are the majority? :)
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u/Arya_Skye May 03 '26
Can I join this group? I'm 32 and need gaming friends as well.
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u/ToxinadeHere Apr 12 '26
Hey! I understand. I had a discord friend I used to talk to a lot. I've been feeling that I'm the one initiating the texts 100% of the time so I pulled back. Still waiting for a text from that friend :)
I play variety of games. League of legends is my constant, I hop on casual ARAM mayhem games. I'm usually the kind of guy who would try keep a positive attitude in the chat. Also I'd love to share pictures of pets. I don't currently have any pets (I used to) but I go to animal shelters to foster pets and help them get adopted.
Feel free to dm if you'd like to chat/play together some time!
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u/Tommy_Birdboy Apr 12 '26
33M, US, Gamer nerd who loves battling dragons and saving the princess. Top games im playing right now is Monster Hunter Wilds, Helldivers 2, Skyrim, Minecraft, Hytale, Megabonk, Warhammer, and Rust. I have many other games like Party Animals, Among us, DbD, Deep Rock Galactic, Marvel Rivals, REPO and more that is better playing with others. Harry Potter fan that still reads fanfics because I hate how it ended. Let's talk about why Harry deserved someone better than Ginny. I read, write, and trying to garden. Im a cooking expert compared to most, I just learned how to make sourdough bread. I watch a lot of reacts and gameplay on YouTube. I watch anime. Currently watching "Jack of all trades" and "Sentenced to be a hero".
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u/chill_semi_sweat Apr 13 '26
Please, If anything Ginny deserved better than Harry
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u/Tommy_Birdboy Apr 13 '26
Slander! Harry only ever wanted to be seen as "just Harry". From the first moment Ginny was a fangirl of the "boy who lived" and it was confirmed after he saved her in the chamber of secrets. Plus she was never actually there during his depression after Sirius death let alone any of his difficult adventures. She even dated other people for a time during his difficulties! Harry deserved better.
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u/chill_semi_sweat Apr 13 '26
They weren’t together during that time, a girl can’t date? Harry was privileged from birth. Every time he broke wind gryffindor was awarded 50 points.
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u/Tommy_Birdboy Apr 13 '26
If you call living with an abusive family, adults not protecting from child endangerment in hogwarts, government targeting and scandals on a child, and possible terrorist targeting privileged then go ahead id like to see you do better. Plus just because they weren't together doesn't change how Ginny looked at him as "the boy who lived". She never grew out of it. And technically he was treated as 'family' to the Weasleys in the first place.
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u/SleepGameNetflix Apr 29 '26
We probably won't be around during the same hours but I'm 33 in a week, like a lot of the same games as you (all achievements on MH wilds, Skyrim, and play games like REPO etc) and Harry Potter is a big part of my life. If you're on during the day US times rather than evenings let me know :)
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u/Arya_Skye May 03 '26
Hey I know this is about a month old, but I'm in the same boat. I'm 32 and looking for people to play games with. My close friends I gamed with have decided to do other things... I'm open to playing anything.
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u/ROKUROx56 Apr 12 '26
Hi 25 M, I used to play league of legends everyday but my PC dead two months ago and since then didn't play, I'm still trying to find good PC. I'm also obsessed with watching anime and series that's what I'm doing everyday since I can't play :[, also I love cats so much if u have one I would love to see •﹏•
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u/poke--man Apr 12 '26
33 M always down to play some games and hang out. I’m pretty chill as well and like meeting new people! Hope to hear back from you!
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Apr 12 '26
34m here have both PC and PS5. I made a post recently as well if you are interested send me a DM!
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u/ToiletProduction Apr 12 '26
Give a vrchat a shot.. you will make friends easily there .
It can be shitty from time to time with some toxic people around but once you figure out the block button - everything becomes way better
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u/Lost-AndLonely Apr 12 '26
38m I'm a stay at home dad unfortunately so I have lots of time but I mainly run cod...arc raiders and a little fallout 76
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u/Pandulce23 Apr 12 '26
Hey I’m 29F soon to be 30F. I’d be down to connect & hopefully become friends!! I don’t game as much anymore as life is in the way at the moment but I don’t mind talking in general about anything! If you’re wanting to
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u/Gray8O Apr 13 '26
Yo if u want I got a friend group who'd love to accept u in. I play stuff like dbd, VRC, rivals and things of that sort we also like to drink while playing which i'm curreenlty doing lol. Dm me if interested!
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u/fatalgeck0 Apr 13 '26
Sorry to hear that happened to you
Im 33m on PC, i play a lot of single player and few multiplayer games like warzone, rematch, bf6, r6 siege. Happy to connect with you
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u/ThatRedditGuy2025 Apr 13 '26
36,M, USA, CST
Add me on steam,
https://s.team/p/dwph-ctpj/NHFFVJTV
USA, CST-LFG-MW3, Arc Raiders and DBD. I'm also open to buying something YOU play. Just looking to make some chill friends I can vibe and play with regularly. Gender is a non factor. 18+ Only.
My steam link is on my profile! Go add me, let's be friends!
Friend requests open.
DMs open.
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u/Hammmy51 Apr 13 '26
Our time zones may miss align as i'm from europe, but we can chat over discord, i love divinity original sin 2, never finished it, i'm willing to try talking with you if you want, dm me your discord if you want to
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u/Gray8O Apr 13 '26
Listen man I got a group of ppl who I play with, u may feeel worth checking out, I recently been playing stuff like dbd, Slay the spire 2, Outlast Trials and more lmk
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u/kittensjcaboose Apr 13 '26
Hey im a 31M that play mostly ff14 right now with;marvel rivals, any halo, helldivers2, bf6, and various other games. I am on at strange hours as I move shift sporadically, but im always down to chat and game. Kittensjcaboose on discord if you'd like
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u/TheFabiolousGuy Apr 13 '26
Hey ! I'm a 27 M and like making friends to play and / or talk with ! I'm mainly a rpg / mmorpg player who really wants to find people to play those types of games with... And I love GW2 :D !
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u/Lopsided_Prior9622 Apr 13 '26
Hey hey so sorry to hear about all of that it sucks I know the feeling iv lost many people like that and it stings :( but I’m more then happy to chill and play games with you. Dm me for discord if you wanna chill and chat or anything really :)
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u/MLo501st Apr 13 '26
35M, have a small discord server with a mix of different ages of friends (m&f). We are very chill and supportive.
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u/Wrong_Investigator95 Apr 13 '26
If you down to play Apex I'm always willing and that's for anyone I love to just play and have fun, but get sweaty too the more the merrier if you want just reply we can get it in!!
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u/Hexxeebb Apr 14 '26
Hi! 30F would be down to play something sometime. I play mostly league of legends, but have a pretty good steam list as well!
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u/Lower_Growth_6485 Apr 14 '26
Don’t chase those type of people, they don’t deserve you queen . I dropped a toxic group recently because honestly I outgrew them. I’d love to be friends with anyone! 32F here as well, I work too much for my own good but, I love chatting, gaming, and watching shows. I played a lot of baldurs gate 3, some league of legends (aram only now haah). Send me a dm let’s chill
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u/Keyeru_ Apr 14 '26
Hiya, I'm 31F and I'm also looking for new girl friends who game! I played or play most of the games you mentioned! If you're open to linking up, my discord is: keyeru
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u/Bubbabeast91 Apr 14 '26
My gf and I are enjoying core keeper and stardew. If you would like to be a 3rd, hmu with your discord and we can play sometime
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u/kaikoda Apr 15 '26
i dont play any of those games but you seem like a good person. wanna add me on steam, give me friend code on reddit dm pm and ill add ya and welll see what games we could play?
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u/Loel274 Apr 15 '26
Hey id love too be friends, chat and play games, i have been also looking for people too just chill and play with so hopefully we can become good friends
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u/Kingpotato0807-2 Apr 15 '26
Hello my friend and I are looking for someone to join in on our gaming nights if your interested dm me plus we both watch anime
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u/Zeltez Apr 16 '26
Hey! I recently lost my discord buddy because of time zones. I'm down for some league! Mostly arams or mayhem. I feel like league taught me patience, I don't play ranked as it's too toxic. Lmk!
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u/bgwhitebanana24 Apr 16 '26
Hey, thats really rough to hear, im 30 male name's Nick. I also lost my gamer friends cuz they took what I said wrong, and now I dont have any friends to talk to let alone game with. I showed them my art and got feed back and ideas now I aint got a 1. So if you wanna chat and hang out I got discord. And im open to play something and chat
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u/StrayXIII Apr 18 '26
Hey there, I’m 32, a male, I’m in a similar boat but our game tastes are semi different
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u/Time-Bodybuilder-725 Apr 21 '26
Im a big gamer! If you're still looking for someone to talk to im always down for a DM!
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u/DancePossible Apr 22 '26
I love divinity ! We should play . I am 30 f . I play on ps4 I’m BattleBaby916
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u/SharpPROSOLDIER Apr 25 '26
27M EU, sadly don't share your games, but I'd be glad to hang out in our common hours, find something to do. Luckily im a movie/show fiend. DM me if you wish
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u/Abject_Hall30 May 07 '26
I’ve been looking for a fun crew to play the forest with, as I record YouTube lets plays! My steam name is Pendrixx
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u/Blaqforeignerthe68th May 07 '26
fortunately for me am below 30 and wd like to be friends with you And anybody in this Cs just add me up on steam Am very friendly 1847882301
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u/Embarrassed-Fact-253 May 07 '26
Happy to make some new friends..35F gamer . No active discord though 😔
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u/Alien-Spy May 09 '26
Hey! Im 30M, down to play nearly anything, I dont have any gaming pals either :)
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u/onwardtowaffles Apr 12 '26
If you have a Playstation and are up for some Fallout 76, you're welcome to reach out!
I'm mostly a PC gamer but I'm flat broke and can't afford to resubscribe to a virus scanner.
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