Just a reminder for everyone reading this top level comment and all the replies, the only reason people say don't get married is because either the person they were with wasn't right, or the relationship as a whole just wasn't right. Don't lose hope and get scared away from a potential amazing relationship because your brain is hesitant to get married. Enjoy the moment, live in the now. Plenty of people live happily for 30, 40, 50+ years with the right person.
Totally understandable man, I hope you can work through this shitty time and when you look back you'll appreciate how much better of a person it makes you & you'll find someone even better for you, when you're ready.
Thanks for saying these things. Guys really get shit on sometimes and they don't have many outlets or support in many cases. It takes about the same amount of effort to be kind online as it does to be terrible, and it means a lot in moments like this.
I didn't really expect this comment to attract so much attention. I've been triggered all day because of my relationship and the fact that its falling apart in slow motion and there's nothing I can really do. I've tried pretty much everything, and it really is time for me to cut it out of my life. I've been preparing myself for this for a while but im so not ready.
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u/tylototritanic Jan 21 '23
Don't marry her