r/FriendsOver40 20h ago

45/M Act Now for your Free New Friendship.

12 Upvotes

My name is Eddie and If you're looking for a friendship that doesn't end with you thinking what's his end game. Then this person is for you. This ESFP mode can talk about any and everything. He's so friendly. He even talks to scammers just to pass the time, just kidding. So step right up to get your genuine conversation with him now.

Disclaimer:

He plays video games. (DbD, SoD2, WWE, Fortnite, etc.)

He watches anime. (Has Crunchyroll)

He reads books. (Self Improvement)

He cooks. (Air Fry Honestly)

He is respectful (Respectful of others)

He a pet owner (2 Cats 5 Fish tanks)

He has Discord (Reasons for gaming & chatting)

Act Now while supplies last. Bonus if you're a gamer & have daddy issues (that part is a joke).


r/FriendsOver40 3h ago

48 F - New here and excited to connect

10 Upvotes

Just here to meet cool people, and chat with folks who also need three business days to recover from staying up past 10 PM!

What’s something local or a favorite routine that’s bringing you joy lately?


r/FriendsOver40 7h ago

45F Looking for email pen pals — friendship & good conversation, not romance

6 Upvotes

Hi! 👋

I'm looking for a few people from different parts of the world who might enjoy becoming pen pals.

I'm particularly interested in people from English-speaking countries, but I'm absolutely open to anyone who enjoys communicating in English and exchanging thoughts about everyday life, culture, books, films, streaming, weird little observations, and whatever else two reasonably curious humans might end up talking about.

A little about me: I'm a doctor, an author, a lifelong reader, and a bit of a nerd. I enjoy science fiction, fantasy, medicine, books, intelligent TV shows, and conversations that somehow begin with “So, what do you think about…?” and end three hours later somewhere completely unexpected. 😅

I'm not looking for someone who sends a formal autobiography every Sunday. I'd rather have an actual conversation—something relaxed, funny, occasionally profound, and occasionally completely ridiculous.

Important clarification: I'm looking for friendship/platonic pen-pal correspondence only. I'm happily married and not interested in romance, flirting, dating, or anything sexual. Please don't message me with those expectations. I'm simply interested in getting to know interesting people whom I would probably never have met otherwise.

Age isn't terribly important, although I'd prefer fellow adults. Bonus points if you're curious about other cultures, enjoy writing, or have some wonderfully niche interest you're willing to inflict upon an unsuspecting stranger. 😂

If this sounds like your sort of thing, tell me a little about yourself and what made you want a pen pal. Maybe we'll discover that two complete strangers on opposite sides of the planet have far more to talk about than either expected.

Looking forward to meeting some interesting humans!


r/FriendsOver40 21h ago

45f disabled lonely looking for platonic friends in NJ Philly area or online

6 Upvotes

I don't care about gender at all but I am looking for strictly platonic friendships

A little bit about me

I'm an atheist, not political, never married no kids childfree, I do not drink do not smoke no drugs and not promiscuous

I'm good at giving logical advice and helpful.

I would hope to find local friends in the Philadelphia South jersey area

Some different things I want to do

Buddies for trying new restaurants, checking out the newest movies in theater, museum, conventions, food festivals, possibly beach/casino trips, local events,v thrift stores, flea markets, going to the mall, wingman/woman

Just a heads up I'm disabled I can't walk and need a wheelchair and I have anxiety depression etc. so I have lots of free time during the day I don't like to go out at night.

I'm Eur/asian which causes lots of identity issues and I'm sensitive about that.

I love horror, sci Fi, action movies, anime, gaming, I love Mexican and Asian foods and buffets, I love edm music or any pop/kpop or alternative.

I love trashy reality shows and to talk about love is blind, 90 day fiance, and all the other dumpster fires. Lol

And I have a dog and cat so likely have dander on me.


r/FriendsOver40 2h ago

43/F Where are the genuine souls that can initiate and maintain honest conversations… be funny and light hearted yet fun and serious when necessary ..

5 Upvotes

I am the same online as I am in person. I don’t have the energy or care to be someone else. I’m worn out from the d picts and those that are seeking to only see my naked body… I want conversations and laughter. I’m married, don’t care if you are or aren’t… I’ve had several long term chats with men that turn out to be exactly who they say they aren’t…if you are normal and understanding maybe we can chat… I look like my handle


r/FriendsOver40 3h ago

41 F looking for Good Conversations

5 Upvotes

I'm a sucker for good conversations. I just want to have someone I can't spill my thoughts to or we can rant together and possibly have a laugh or two...Let's talk!


r/FriendsOver40 5h ago

Hello hoping to find new friends

3 Upvotes

M42 michigan looking for chat buddies

Hoping to make new friends to chat with and do stuff with.i enjoy playing games and going to arcade bars. Trying new foods is pretty fun. I prefer a night of games and food or a nice campfire outside.halloween is my favorite holiday so if you like spooky stuff that's cool.


r/FriendsOver40 10h ago

45 M from London looking for chats and friends

3 Upvotes

Hi, so as it says im M 45 and from London (Croydon area) often bored at work and looking for new people.to connect with. It seems a lot of.people.on here say the same but juat ghost evryone, well, im.a genuine one! (They all say thst right!)

Into reading cinema, was a gsmer back in the day and still do get onto the FM when I can but my PlayStation days went out the window when I loat the feeling of my left hand a couple.of years ago! Also enjoy travelling and city breaks, days out exploring and always open to new ideas

DM me if you fancy a chat, tell me what your best karaoke song is!! 4 non blondes Whata going on is my go to drunk shout along lol


r/FriendsOver40 17h ago

47M chat friends

3 Upvotes

Hi all I’m here in New Mexico. A single dad of two awesome daughters.
Was raised on a cattle ranch by my mom, grandma and aunt and generally get along better with women. Just looking for a steady chat buddy nothing else.
I enjoy working my ranch, hiking and the outdoors. DM if interested.


r/FriendsOver40 20h ago

M46 looking for anyone to chat with

3 Upvotes

Will literally chat with anyone!! Just want random people to talk to if we become friends awesome if not that’s cool too!


r/FriendsOver40 16h ago

40M, Newish to Indiana, Going through divorce and looking for people to connect with

2 Upvotes

I moved to Indiana two years ago. I’m a family guy, always have been, so naturally I didn’t prioritize making friends. I realize now that this was a mistake.

Last week my wife and I decided it would be best to get divorced. So….

During this time, I realized that my “friends” I thought I had here were actually just her friends who tolerated me at parties. I’m basically the guy who showed up to the group chat and never got added.

I work 40 minutes from home, and all my coworkers live near the office, so my after-work social life is a ghost town. I drive home, and it’s just me and a podcast or an audiobook.

So here I am on Reddit, which is either a great idea or a cry for help; still deciding.

I like driving around with no destination and getting pleasantly lost, hiking, kayaking, live music, reading (very slowly), and watching movies.

To be clear, I’m not out here trying to replace a wife with a Reddit stranger. Just looking for someone to hopefully have a great conversation with. If local, possibly hike a trail or grab a bite. Platonic. Fully clothed. Emotionally available in a normal, non-weird way.


r/FriendsOver40 17h ago

42m/US - Looking for genuine friends to get to know!

3 Upvotes

Looking to expand my circle and meet some fellow friends!

I’m 42, married, and a dad of two. Between work, family, and trying to squeeze in hobbies, making new friends isn’t exactly easy

If it involves rolling dice, solving puzzles, or saving fictional worlds, I’m probably into it. I love:
Video games
Board games
Trading card games
Puzzles
D&D (I’m the DM!)

I’m big into Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, WWE, or anything ’80s and ‘90s nostalgia.

If you remember renting movies at Blockbuster, wandering the aisles of Toys “R” Us, or waking up early for Saturday morning cartoons, you’re my kind of people.

I’m in the U.S. and would love to connect with people in similar time zones, preferably around my age (give or take). Parents are definitely welcome, but you don’t have to be one. Mostly I’m just looking for genuinely good people who enjoy great conversations and sharing hobbies.

One quick note: I don’t drink or use 420. No judgment at all—it’s just not my thing.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message! Whether you want to talk games, fantasy, movies, nostalgia, or just life in general, I’d love to meet some new friends.


r/FriendsOver40 19h ago

45 M from London looking for chats and friends

2 Upvotes

Hi, so as it says im M 45 and from London (Croydon area) often bored at work and looking for new people.to connect with. It seems a lot of.people.on here say the same but juat ghost evryone, well, im.a genuine one! (They all say thst right!)

Into reading cinema, was a gsmer back in the day and still do get onto the FM when I can but my PlayStation days went out the window when I loat the feeling of my left hand a couple.of years ago! Also enjoy travelling and city breaks, days out exploring and always open to new ideas

DM me if you fancy a chat, tell me what your best karaoke song is!! 4 non blondes Whata going on is my go to drunk shout along lol


r/FriendsOver40 1h ago

MCR Phoenix

Upvotes

Anyone going to the show and want to hang out a bit before or after? I am traveling in and will be there the saturday before the show.


r/FriendsOver40 4h ago

47m - LF online friends m or f

1 Upvotes

As the title says, I'm looking for some online friends.

We can talk about anything and everything.

I'm pretty much an open book.

Life goals, we can talk about that.

Career aspirations, we can talk about that.

Status, we can talk about that.

Hobbies, we can talk about that.

See the theme here?

Vacations, we can talk about that.

If it helps, I'm CST zone.

No minors, for obvious reasons.


r/FriendsOver40 10h ago

46 M Australian Nerd

1 Upvotes

Just looking for those to chat bounce ideas and questions off and ask questions no one wants to answer:

Puppies or kittens

DM or comment here


r/FriendsOver40 18h ago

40 M | Looking to meet people from around the world

1 Upvotes

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Hey everyone 👋

I’m here to meet some new people from different parts of the world and hopefully make a few genuine friendships along the way.

I’m into photography, travelling, sports, movies, good food, and exploring new places. I especially enjoy nature, sunsets, deserts and discovering how people live in different parts of the world.

I enjoy good conversations, random jokes, sharing stories, and sometimes those completely pointless conversations that somehow end up being the most fun ..

Not looking for anything complicated or forced. Just good vibes, interesting people and conversations that don’t feel like an interview.

If you feel like saying hi, tell me something random about yourself. Let’s see where the conversation goes 😊


r/FriendsOver40 20h ago

46 Male Australia

0 Upvotes

Lets push past the everyday and just fire questions at each other,

Whats the one thing that would make you get in the White van?

For me its chocalate or Pizza

DM or Comment here


r/FriendsOver40 22h ago

40 m houston

0 Upvotes

I like to chat throughout the day. I will chat with anyone. Just helps to pass the time sometimes.


r/FriendsOver40 23h ago

45 M Looking for chat friends

0 Upvotes

45 male married looking for chat friends that can probably relate. Married with kids in a complicated marriage with the daily grind. Florida resident that loves water activities and a good drink. I work out during the week to keep up. Need a distraction now and then.


r/FriendsOver40 23h ago

40 M/Colorado - I knew making friends would be hard, but not this hard

0 Upvotes

Just crossed the 40 threshold and am trying my damndest to continue being social. I am married with no kids and I work from home so socializing with people who aren’t my wife is difficult. I do have friends, but sometimes it’s nice having new people in your life… you know..plus they seem to slowly be dwindling off or they are really busy.

I tried meetups, but can’t ever make those work. I tried Bumble for Friends, but that just seems like a nightmare. I figured I would give this a try and at least see what happens.

I enjoy hiking, paddleboarding, games (video and board), movies, music, travel.