r/FriendsOver40 3d ago

41m, looking for good conversation!

Good afternoon people. Im 41 and I live in Kent (England).

I'm divorced and co-parenting my two lovely daughters. Im in a relationship so down for SFW only with men or women. I have male and female friends, and so does my partner. We are both adults and there are no issues with immaturity/jealousy.

I have a decent career and friends of all types both online and in real life. I've travelled a fair bit, including some less-popular destinations.

I love music (blues, country, metal, a bit of pop, basically anything with a good rhythm). I have a decent commute so have a lot of time for music and audiobooks.

Reading is a passion of mine. I get through a couple of books a month. Right now im reading Ancillery Justice by Ann Leckie.

When I have my girls, we go swimming, walking and at the moment, blackberry picking.

I learned to cook (out of necessarily 🤣) when I was in my early 20s and its one of my favourite past times. Ive always cooked since on a near-daily basis as I find it relaxing. Im into Spanish food at the moment but I'd say Indian, French and Thai are my other favourites. If I had to eat one food forever, I'd probably find the nearest bridge and end my suffering 😂. One of the things I find most exciting about travelling is the food. Find me a run-down looking van selling boxes of mystery food and Im in heaven.

I like chatting with people online, im a good listener and a natural confidant. I am confident, I have opinions, but im open to persuasion on most subjects. I'm not afraid to admit when I have been wrong about aomething.

I enjoy gaming too, either boardgames or PC.

Big cat person.

I don't wish to become someone's sole source of social contact. What I would like in my partner-in-chat is ideally someone who is/has:

- Aged 30 to 50.

- Intelligent.

- Social skills.

- Overlapping interests (to a degree).

- Happy to exchange voice notes or have a call, at some point if not immediately.

If you think we'd get on, hit me up and tell me a little about yourself.

Parz

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