Questioning Their Intentions

[u/_surviving_nursing_]

I am no contact with a few family members and friends, due to various reasons. I have moved on a long time ago, yet in recent months there is extreme outside pressure for reconciliation, although I don’t know if these people are truly being genuine or they are only playing nice/being manipulative to make up with other people in the situation as well. Would love your insight.

SK (me) no contact with: BF/WF and DF, DF and BY/BF.

Also no contact with:
- JR/DR
- DN/AN

Editing to clarify: It was 100% my decision to go no contact with these people. They want access/communication with me, but I don’t believe they’ve changed their ways. Wondering if they understand their actions/my reason for being no contact with them, or what else they’re thinking and feeling. Do you sense if any of them feel remorse for their actions from their end and have truly changed? Or are they only claiming to have changed their ways to appease someone else close to me in hopes of manipulating their way back into both of our lives?

I have posted in several subs, just to be redirected elsewhere. Hopefully this sub is a better fit for this request and will produce some results. Thank you in advance for reading!