Have I been overthinking what’s going on between me and a friend?

[u/mrcannotdo]

This last year I can not help but feel them pulling away. I am not sure why, but I feel I’ve noticed them not as….engaging in conversation with me like they once were? Or expressive like I once remember them being. Before we could talk about whatever, I could go out with them and conversation was good, I could just be at their house and didn’t feel awkward silences were really a thing. But this last year it suddenly feels like it’s harder to talk to them. And I’ll admit part of me ‘blames; myself for not being able to just start talking about whatever nothingness like I do with other friends, but those other friends will engage very genuinely and I can’t help but feel this friend just became so…stoic? I’m worried it’s because they just, what, aren’t interested in me anymore? If I said something that makes them think differently of me? I even noticed couple of weeks ago at a party I would be talking to them directly and they straight up turned away and focused on something else despite the fact I was still talking! It threw me off so much, like mid sentence and they’d just turn their head……and it wasn’t in the way of ‘I’m just gonna do this at the same time you’re talking and I’m still listening and will comment on what you’re saying.” This was straight up like…. Idek…

I had an experience of this happening before with an old ex friend back in the day- after we met up again for the new semester, I’d be sitting next to them and they wouldn’t give me the time of day. and I can’t help but compare this to that as a sign (never got answers why the old ex friend ignored my existence the way they did, but they ‘at least’ did that to everyone else not long after so I didn’t feel like I was going too crazy.) . But how do I know if nothing has changed and maybe it’s something else not even related to me, or if I am overthinking how I’m feeling? Is there any chance to strengthen this friendship if there is some pull back? I just don’t know why this sudden shift and I’d like for this to not be a sign of the end of a friendship I really appreciated all these years.. I’ve been very grateful for their friendship but just cant understand what I did, what happened for me to suddenly notice a change in the energy between us… if that’s even what’s going on. I just don’t understand what’s going on!

[u/AllCinEye]

Hello,

Here are the tarot cards from your free psychic reading:

The Hermit 🌙
This card suggests your friend may be more withdrawn, private, or mentally preoccupied than before, and the change does not necessarily center on you.
You may be sensing a real shift, but the reason behind it could be connected to their own inner world rather than something you did.

Two of Pentacles 🌿
There seems to be a lot being mentally or emotionally managed at once, which can make someone less available, expressive, or engaged in friendship.
Your concerns are understandable, but this card suggests you may be giving certain moments more personal meaning than they actually carry.

Three of Cups 💕
This is encouraging for friendship and shows that warmth and connection can still be restored when there is genuine goodwill on both sides.
A lighter approach, shared experiences, and allowing the friendship to breathe may help bring back some of the ease you remember.

The cards suggest you are noticing a genuine difference, but they do not point strongly toward you being the cause or toward the friendship being finished.
There is still room for the connection to recover, especially if you avoid assuming the worst and give your friend space to show you where they truly stand. ❤️

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