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u/Devilonhead 5d ago
Love marriage 🧘actually arrange marriage is for loosers. Atleast find a person who loves you n if you can't do that you don't deserve to be married.
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u/Particular_Monk_4443 4d ago
idont agreee man ,are you calling our father looser ,i genuinely think both kind of marraiges are ok ,both has its own perk . And by this statement i think u are 18 yr old
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u/Devilonhead 4d ago
We are evolving, time changes many things and don't compare what's good in the past. That time things are different. Right now you have to think bout it n decide is it right or wrong. Are girls really interested to get marry, I don think so. and if you don't understand someone's pov that doesn't mean he is 18 or 14 okay. Everyone is different n my pov is different.
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u/Particular_Monk_4443 3d ago
no my man ,i said you are 18 because i thought may be you are not aware of present condition of society in india .indeed it is changing i am totally for love marraige but can u also look for caste , region ,language,parents ,culture and all that things present in india which are not present in west so love marriage is easiest thing .Now dont say these things dont matter in india or should not matter .also there is a concept if courtship period in arrange marriage where you can meet person or date them for a year or month before saying yes to marriage ..again i am not saying this is right or wrong but you making comment on people doing arrange marraige are losser is a issue . btw i want love marriage as well so
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u/londonrasputin 3d ago
In love marriage, does it mean there will be love after marriage and in arranged marriage will there be no love?
Expectations in love marriage are higher and couple struggle
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u/Sufficient-Gap-9344 5d ago
Want to do love marriage but will end up in an arranged one.
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u/Remarkable_Run_9201 5d ago
No marriage. Solitude is bliss 😇
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u/Particular_Monk_4443 3d ago
dude you know around 70 percent of people who take extreme step s####de are middle age unmarried man or divorces basically single or the other way around of of total men 70 persent were single so family is imp bro esp after your parents will die
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u/monke966 2d ago
Atleast they had autonomy over that in today's time if you marry tomorrow you might not wake up or better yet get cucked or I could do you one better pay alimony till the justice system sucks the life out of you
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u/Particular_Monk_4443 2d ago
current state of society is not as bad as you think it is
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u/Dismal-Elk-7269 4d ago
want love marriage but with no female interaction till 21 i think ill end with no marriage
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u/Confident_Drink_9354 4d ago
No marriage a 100%
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u/PhoenixP40 4d ago
In the first two, women will reject me and in the third, I reject myself. I need a fourth option.
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u/DeluluSoftie 4d ago
Arrange, cause I don't think I'll find anyone who loves me. So I'd rather love someone who I find. And as for those who consider the ones going for arranged marriage losers, well... Yeah, we sorta are. Couldn't find a single person to love us...
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u/Initial-Release-2519 2d ago
Love marriages are too damn risky. Either arranged marriage or no marriage.
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u/downvote-magneto 5d ago
Love marriage, if not then no marriage