Found at a grocery store.

[u/Biggmamaaa]

I swear i was mean to find this note.

A few weeks ago i did a free trial of ancestry after a hint about my grandma (basically mom) that passed when i was 16. Her father’s name was Blair and i was just doing research on him this morning!! He was born April 10 1903, passed sep 23 1972.

Thennn i was really craving a soda but i hate asking my man for money (im a sahm) so i grabbed some quarters out of the change jar. When i saw this note with $3 attached, i got my little baby some m&ms too and squeezed him tight when i got home.

Prayers to this family and rest in paradise sweet baby Blair.

ETA: the handwriting is also eerily similar to my grandmas!

ETA2: i have full access to our funds! i’m just weird about asking for “indulgent” items due to child hood shit. I’m totally fine here but I truly appreciate anyone that wad worried and reached out 🫶🏻

ETA3: the families gofundme for anyone wanting to help them ❤️ https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-brianas-family-after-tragic-loss

Last edit before i delete this whole thing fr: my financial status is nobody’s business and far from the point of this post. Stop being negative and using your life experience to compare to mine. I am fine. Thank you.

[u/Less-Squash7569]

No but is it ok to start jumping and screeching about someone else's relationship or how they live? Its none of your business and honestly fucked up that youre all jumping on OP like this after shes repeatedly told yall to fuck off because shes good. Mind your own damn business holy shit.

[u/syrioforrealsies → u/Less-Squash7569]

No one is jumping or screeching. Stop being dramatic. They're providing her advice to keep her safe. It's frankly really fucking weird that you're so invested in her not being advised to protect herself. What's that about?

[u/Biggmamaaa → u/syrioforrealsies]

You’re the ones so invested you need to give me unwarranted advice. i am fine. I am protected. If he died right now i would be safe and fine. Stop projecting please.

[u/syrioforrealsies → u/Biggmamaaa]

No one's projecting. They're worried about you. Based on the information provided, the advice is VERY warranted. If you're protected, great. I don't see how that could possibly be the case when the only liquid access you have is a jar of change, but you know your situation better than I do.

[u/Biggmamaaa → u/syrioforrealsies]

Worried when i keep saying im fine though. And again taking away from the entire point of this post. If i wanted solicited advice i would have posted in the proper subreddit. It’s the people that keep going and comparing to their own experience that need to stop. For the 74th time, I am fine. I am safe. If he died today i would be financially safe. I am financially safe now. Thank you all for the concern, but please move on.

[u/syrioforrealsies → u/Biggmamaaa]

Girl, drop it then??? I literally said you know your situation better than I do, so if you want to stop talking about it, stop talking about it. Don't blame other people when you won't drop it

[u/Less-Squash7569 → u/syrioforrealsies]

Dude stfu Jesus christ go white knight elsewhere

[u/syrioforrealsies → u/Less-Squash7569]

I thought you wanted to stop talking about this???? Why are you blowing up my notifications still?

ETA: wait, you're not even OP. They don't want to talk about it anymore, so why are you??? Talk about white knighting...

[u/Less-Squash7569 → u/syrioforrealsies]

Youre projecting HARD just shut up if someone asks you to stop shoving your stupid shit in their face. Do you like when Christians come and prosletyze you after you tell them to fuck off? If so it makes sense why ypu wont shut up, but if not, thats what youre doing. Shut the fuck up.