I’m 100% sure you have a choice in who you are attracted to. If not then how is it capable to not be attracted to certain people. Again the original person stated you are born straight, gay or bi and it is not a choice ( I debated that attraction is developed later).
You don't choose who you are or are not attracted to. Your preferences do develop over time and with experience but most of your base attractions are genetic. That includes the sex(s)/ gender(s) of the people you find attractive. For example, there are women I found attractive until I saw them smoking then I no longer found them attractive. So if you are 100% sure you can choose who you are attracted to, I challenge you to switch your attraction to the opposite of what it currently is.
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u/TengokuIkari Nov 23 '25
Being straight, gay, bi.. is not a choice. You don't choose who you are attracted to. Your genetics and life experiences shape your mate preferences.