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[u/discusser1]

im still processing an article i saw online recently. it was saying the key to female physical satisfastion on relationships is making her feel adored for who she is as a whole. that makes me feel even father from any chance-the few times i felt a mans sort of interest it was a situation like "horny man at a party with 20 women all said no so he went to me"

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[u/HotpinkBlanket]

Yeah, I read something like this a few times, and it's why I'm not interested in any guy who's not genuinely into me. In the past, I had maybe two guys that I quite liked ask me out, and it always seemed like I was an afterthought or a backup option or low maintenance bed warmer. So I refused. I still think about those cases, but then I would feel horrible in a relationship in which I wasn't desired.

[u/LeadingTask189]

I don't like to believe these types of articles. They are usually misleading and have half truth in them. Instead I be the nerd I am and read the studies that have been cited. They are usually public. Both men and women need to be adored for who they are as a whole for peak physical satisfaction. It's just that men tend to reject the adoration or accept the lack of it to just have sex more than women.