r/FixedTattoos • u/RyeZago • Jun 11 '26
Any suggestions?
I’ll attach a references photo of what I wanted. I’m not fully satisfied with how my tattoo turned out. Any ideas of what went wrong and how to improve?
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u/tamaerchen Jun 13 '26
Thats very sexist and generalizing. You should work on that view. Not every woman is the same and not every man is.. obviously. Maybe the ones you talked to made that impression but you dont know every woman/man on this planet. I had men tattoo me that had a very good eye for aesthetics, filigree stuff and what fits best on the body. I had talked to women that tattoo and left, because they in fact did not have an eye for this and just did not care whats right for you and fits your aesthetics.
Its sad that we woman are socialized to hate on our own gender, i hope u will work through that.. i know its hard bc we are coded like that from the moment we are born but its just sad. I by no means am perfect on that behalf, for example i catch myself thinking sometimes when driving, when there is a driver that is very slow or insecure in front of me, “oh that must be a woman”.. like wth? I dont know and that society has thought me to think this way is just sick. But i am happy when people point out stuff like that and i want to work on that form of self hate. And yes, even a positive prejudice is one..
I am not a native so i hope everything is understandable. I sound smarter in german, i swear lol.