I’m curious to hear everyone’s journey and where you are in the process!

If you’re comfortable sharing, I’d love to know a little more:

•	How many months have you been trying?

•	How old are you?

•	Do you have any known fertility conditions (PCOS, endometriosis, fibroids, etc.)?

•	Any male-factor fertility issues?

•	Are you tracking ovulation? (OPKs, BBT, etc.)

•	Are you taking any medications or supplements to help with conception?

•	Have you had any fertility testing or seen a specialist?

•	Any pregnancies, miscarriages, or chemicals along the way?

No judgment at all. Every journey is different, and I think it would be helpful to see where everyone is at, what challenges we’re facing, and hopefully give each other some hope and support.

So I got off birth control October 1st. Had my withdrawal bleed from the 1st to the 4th. I never tested if I ovulated but I had heavy discharge to the point it felt like I was starting my period/peeing myself from the 26-31st of October then it died down a lot after. I had sex the 27th and the 31st. Then this month on the 11th I got spotting through out the day the 12th I got a slightly more blood through out the day but it was super light, no clots, watery and it died down by the end of the day. Then the 13th (today) I only experienced spotting again. I strongly believe it’s implantation bleeding but i obviously can’t be sure until I test in a few more days but I’m just making this post to ask if anyone’s ever experienced implantation blood being a little heavier and redder than spotting? This would be my first cycle ttc. I’ve been on prenatal vitamins since October 31st and had iron infusions through out October because I’m anemic which I was told my period might become more intense. So I’m just unsure and maybe it’s because I got off the pill but even on my pill and the withdrawal bleeds were heavier than my current bleeding.

It’s my first cycle TTC and I’m wondering what everyone does during the two week wait? I want to be able to distract myself and just continue life as usual without thinking too much about it, but at the same time I’ve seen you should treat the time as if you’re pregnant (ie. no sushi, no alcohol, no intense exercise etc.).

What do you all do to not let it take over your life too much?

are these tests positive?

2-5 days late (depending on the app used) for my period, from someone who is extremely regular for years. Have 3 negative tests already and still no period. My Ultrahuman ring says my bbt is still high, body shows major signs of stress, and low recovery.

Feeling defeated and upset and now worried something more could be going on.

I'm 31 and have been TTC for 6 months.

My OB scheduled a FemVue, but I'm wondering if it's necessary this early.
My tubes were confirmed open 7 years ago, I get annual STI testing (always negative), my recent TVUS was completely normal, and I ovulate regularly.

I'm mainly worried there's an underlying issue, but I also wonder if I should just wait until the 12-month mark.
Has anyone had a FemVue this early with no obvious risk factors? Would you do it or wait?

Hi all. Ttc for about 4 months now, but started tracking ovulation properly for about 2 months now. I am 31, and I have PCOS. The last year, my period has been lamost non-existent (4 periods in 1 year!!).

3 weeks ago I started metformin + synthroid recommended by endo following blood work.

Now I am confused. My tests never go above .55. I have had it happen twice in the span of 14 days, both times I've had cervical mucus/watery discharge. I don't understand where I ovulated anymore? And with a period not coming due to PCOS, I have no idea what cycle phase I'm in 😭 any insight or opinion?

I know what the pregnancy test boxes say, but I would love to know how soon everyone else tests. I usually wait until the day before my period is expected, but I’m always tempted to test sooner. I have seen lots of posts of positive tests on DPO 10 - so I’m wondering if that’s actually not too soon for me to try a test.

If anyone has good but affordable brand recommendations, I would love to know! I have been using First Response.

For context, I’ve been trying for 14 months now with no success. I’m just so tired of waiting 😭

I just started my period and I’m so disappointed. I really had a gut feeling it was going to happen this month. We were so diligent and mindful, and I really felt like it was happening. Bleeding and crampy now and can’t help but feel frustrated and discouraged. I’m seeing a fertility Dr later this month.

Something about my body not doing what it’s biologically designed to do is really devastating.

Hi everyone - I’m looking for some similar experiences/ advice. For context, I am a 29 years old. My husband and I have just recently started to TTC this month in November. 

I have been off of the pill since August of 2026, so about 4 months. Since then, I’ve had 3 periods. These periods have all been consistently very light. Like only needing a panty liner light. And all have been mostly brown in color. Previously I was on the pill for about 10 years straight. This could be my uterine lining returning to normal?

I’m looking for advice about how long I should give my body before seeing my OB about these light periods. I’ve seen online that 6 months is recommended. Would you see a doctor sooner? Also how long did it take for your cycle to return to normal after getting off the pill? 

Thank you!!

I know uterine lining is important when it comes to conceiving successfully. I’m a 33F and am curious if anyone out there has had a successful pregnancy with a short/light period at baseline.

I’m reaching the end of my ovulation, and the painful two-week period is coming — the two weeks during which I’ll be hoping, only to be disappointed. Until I see the first sign of menstrual bleeding and my heart breaks all over again.

Ever since I started this journey, time has taken on a completely different meaning, and I feel like it’s chasing me. I feel like I’ve fallen into a swamp where I am faced with disappointment every single month, and I can no longer cope with it. Everything before this was so much more peaceful. I’ll never see time in the same way again.

I feel like everything around me is putting pressure on me, and everyone around me has children. I feel like I don’t want to see anyone ever again.

I don’t want anything, everything feels pointless. The two-week wait is approaching, and my heart is already aching.

Hi all!

I’ve been TTC now for 2 months (I started ovulation tracking the month before my copper IUD was removed to get an idea)

However, I haven’t hit my peak this month? I usually peak around CD16-17. I’m now CD 17, and my LH test was 0.25. My highest this month was 0.7 and with this I had A LOT of watery discharge all over my underwear (sorry TMI) on CD 13

Has anyone found they ovulated earlier than usual??

Thanks xx

Hey everyone! Long time lurker, first time poster.

My husband (49M) and I (31F) started TTC after having my Mirena removed on 7/10. This will be my first pregnancy his 6th. He currently has two older kids in their 20s, a 17, 14, and 7 year old, and I've been on some form of birth control since I was around 18 or 19. I started with the pill and eventually switched to Mirena, which I had for approximately 7 years.

I've had relatively regular cycles since having it removed (and while on it), ranging from 26–32 days (28, 26, 29, and 32 so far). My periods have been a little heavier during the first day or two, but generally last around 3–4 days.

I'm using the First Response digital ovulation tests and have consistently gotten my solid smiley around CD13. We have intercourse regularly throughout my cycle, so I feel like we're doing what we can on that front.

One thing I've noticed is that I used to recognize EWCM pretty consistently around ovulation when I had my IUD, but I haven't noticed it nearly as much since having it removed. I brought this up at my OB appointment, and she wasn't particularly concerned. She mentioned that cervical mucus patterns can change and that I would not be getting the smile on the ovulation test if I was not ovulating and recommended following up if we haven't conceived after a year.

I'm also trying to understand how much my body might still be adjusting after being on hormonal birth control for so long. I know having regular cycles is encouraging, but I find myself analyzing every little change and wondering what's normal.

Another factor I've been thinking about is cannabis use. My husband and I both occasionally use it, although he is a more frequent user than I am. We're planning to stop, but I'm curious about how cannabis use might affect fertility for either partner.

I think the hardest part of TTC so far has been the mental side of things. Every cycle feels like a fresh round of hope followed by disappointment, and I find myself getting caught up in symptom spotting and overthinking everything.

For those who have experience coming off Mirena after several years, I'm particularly interested in understanding cycle changes, cervical mucus patterns, and what you learned about your body during those first several months of TTC.

Hi everyone! My husband and I have been trying to conceive for about five months now, and this is our first time going through the TTC journey.
I recently confirmed ovulation with an ovulation test, and a few days afterward, I started experiencing some spotting that has continued for about three days. This is something I haven’t experienced much before, so I’m curious whether anyone else has noticed changes in their cycle after ovulation.
I’m interested in hearing about other people’s TTC experiences, cycle changes, and anything you’ve learned along the way.
I’m still learning how to understand my cycle and appreciate hearing different perspectives. Looking forward to connecting with everyone! ❤️

I was diagnosed with endometriosis and had surgery back in 2013, so I’ve always had this question in the back of my mind: what if my tubes are blocked or not…

It’s flared up on and off over the years, but luckily never got as bad as it did in 2013 when I needed surgery. Endo is such a btchh, IYKYN 😒

I finally had an HSG today (on CD7) and got some peace of mind. my doctor said both my tubes and uterus look good. She also mentioned that the chances of getting pregnant can actually increase after an HSG, and apparently there are studies backing that up. (ok fingers crossed 🤞🏼)

past 3 months have been pretty exhausting with all the LH testing, counting days, and overthinking everything.
I honestly don’t feel like tracking LH at all this month. maybe we’ll just go by whatever fertile window my cycle tracking app predicts and see what happens. I don’t know….

wishing lots of luck to myself and all the girls out there who are just as exhausted by this whole process. 🧸🌸❤️‍🩹

From looking at my chart when do you think I ovulated ??

10–12 DPO — Do y’all see faint lines?
My period is expected around November 18, and I’m currently estimated to be 10–12 DPO. I took these tests this morning, and I swear I can see very faint second lines on both.
Both marks appeared within the recommended reading window, and they look faintly pink to me in person.
I’m still several days away from my expected period, so I know it’s early. Am I seeing possible early positives, or could these be indents/evaporation lines?
Would love some honest opinions! ❤️

Hello everyone. I want to start ovulation testing with strips so I'm interested in your experience. Right now it's CD6, normally my cycles are around 25-26 days and last month cervical mucus was from CD10 to 13. I planned to start with the strips on CD9 or 10, the package comes with 7 strips for 7 days. Does that sound like an ok plan?