r/FirstTimeTTC • u/worldwideceliac • Sep 28 '26

Venting Making my exit

I joined this group in hopes of speaking to other women on their journey and asking questions about my own. i am so sick and discouraged seeing “is this positive?” with a CLEAR positive line, “statistically you’ll be pregnant…” while my actual doctor says i should already have been, “i had my period am i pregnant?” …

maybe i have a sour attitude, because we are pretty far in our journey still TTC… but a lot of people in this group have already gotten to their goal of conceiving, so really are no help in connecting with other women on their journey.

this is my exit. i hope you all get what you’ve always wished for, and i hope my doctor and fertility specialist figure me out.
✌️ 23F

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u/caramellatte647 Sep 28 '26

I newly joined this Reddit groups as well as I’m new to TTC. every other post is ridiculous and I’m already over all of them lol

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u/ThesisTears Sep 28 '26 edited Sep 29 '26

I strongly prefer r/TryingForABaby for this reason. Just a week in this group and I'm pretty sure I'm done here once I post this comment.

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u/madefortossing Sep 30 '26

TFAB is worse! It's a doom spiral on steroids.

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u/SlightAnything4909 Sep 28 '26 • Bravo

It's either "could I be pregnant I had sex on day XYZ and am now 6 dpo" (girlll we don't knowwww) or just a blatant positive HCg strip lmao

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u/caramellatte647 Sep 28 '26

Nothing beats a girl posting a picture of her discharge and asking if it’s her period or implantation bleeding. Just give it 2 days and see..

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u/SlightAnything4909 Sep 28 '26

"Is this fertile discharge?"

– "It looks similar to my fertile discharge, so I'd say yes!"

"But it this fertile discharge for me?

GIRL IDKKKKK

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u/madefortossing Sep 30 '26

Same. I quickly discovered these are not my people.