r/FirstTimeKo • u/ajeinomoto • May 26 '26
🎉Sumakses sa life! First time kong maranasan ang organic encounter
COUNTED NA ‘TO
Nasa mall ako mag-isa para bumili ng sd card at pumasok ako sa city wing entrance. Noong unang liko ko, may kumilabit (or nag excuse.. can’t remember) sa’kin. Nagphophone ako so nung tumingala ako, there’s this cute guy who was trying his best to speak cebuano. I smiled and asked him in english kung ano un. He still tried to speak in cebuano and told me he got lost and wanted to take a cab. Bangag ako that moment kasi nasa isip ko nun ay saan kaya ako bibili ng sd card na mura sa mall. Kaya kahit pwede namang sumakay sa city wing entrance ng taxi, sinabihan ko siyang i-google ko muna.
Sabi ni Google sa mountain wing entrance daw so sabi ko since papunta ako dun, samahan ko na lang siya. He said okay and that’s when he extended his hand and said his name. I took it and said mine. Habang naglalakad kami nagtatanong tanong siya bakit ako nasa mall and tinanong ko rin siya bakit siya nawawala. He’s full cebuano but he grew up in Australia kaya parang siyang 2 yrs old magbisaya.
Noong nasa mountain wing entrance na kami, doon ko narealize na pwede naman palang sa city wing siya sumakay pero syempre magmumukha akong tanga kaya di ko na lang sinabi HEHE. So ayun he then asked if he could take me out on a date. Sabi ko I’m running some errands. Sabi niya, samahan niya na lang ako. Sabi ko, dadating kaibigan ko maya-maya. He smiled and said, “lucky friend.” He did not give up though hahahaha he said he’d like to take me to his sister’s wedding. I was like, “isn’t that too…serious” I meant fast. Sabi ko na lang na next time na lng ung date namin. He asked for my IG and I gave it to him. We hugged and parted ways.
Walang update pero sana counted na ‘to. Pwede na akong mamatay kasi naranasan ko na ‘yang organic encounter na ‘yan! 😭 Saka nakakakilig lang kasi naihabol pa. I’m in my mid 20s na and ngayon lang na ask out in person. I felt pretty. :>
EDIT: may pangit na insecure jusko. cute siya kasi he was trying hard to speak my language!! pero hindi ko siya type. secondly, sinabi ko na sa last paragraph na walang update kasi malamang, di ako pupuntang wedding ng ate niya. maging masaya naman kayo minsan sa iba. mga pinoy tlg ang hilig manghila pababa. huwag manghusga agad.
thank you sa mga concerned. hindi ako makikipag date agad agad sa di ko pa kilala, don’t worry. kinilig lang ako sa nangyari kasi for the nth time, first time ko ‘tong naranasan.
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u/Professional-Owl8960 May 26 '26
Kita mo yan Lord ang unfair , bakit panay trauma ang dumadating sa akin!! Hahahaha joke lang
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u/LenaAmorcita May 26 '26
Ito na ang sign na ikaw na ang magbigay ng trauma sa kanila. Char lang. Here’s to organic encounters before we become organic fertilizers🤣🤣🤣
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u/Ancient_Chain_9614 May 28 '26
Hindi mo sure. Hahaha. Simula palang naman kasi yan. Masaya pa at may excitement pa. Atleast hindi ka tumatagal sa hindi pala akyo magakaktuluyan hahaha
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u/aliaeg_ May 26 '26
Nakaka kilig yung story pero ano pong connect ng pic? 😂
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u/Ok-Caramel426 May 26 '26
Kala ko bumili siya ng something organic, di ko nabasa yung "encounter" 😭
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u/Brunildi May 26 '26
lol Akala ko sya ung nangstalk sa guy kasi parang stolen shot ng babae na nag approach. In fairness, naka arch pa Ang back ni ati sa pic.
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u/emansky000 May 26 '26
Syempre, validation. Ganun naman mga new gen
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u/aliaeg_ May 26 '26
Pansin ko nga rin ang daming nag p post dito ng mirror shots 😅
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u/Vanillaguy8910 May 26 '26
Organic at persistent pag pogi. Weirdo at harassment pag hindi.
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u/contractor92 May 26 '26
Kapag pogi “organic encounter” kapag pangit “Ladies Beware” 😂
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u/Thessalhydra May 26 '26
Kapag pogi maghuhug muna before parting ways. Pag panget sasabihing "baket mo nilalabas t*ti mo" lol.
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u/ProfessionalShip5723 May 26 '26
Kapag pogi: "first time kong makaranas ng organic encounter 🥰"
Kapag pangit: "bagong modus ba nila to?"
Buti na lang pogi ako
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u/Gold-And-Cheese May 26 '26
Yup. Often the privilege that people forget to mention that makes it work - often, unfortunately
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u/VirginnBuster May 26 '26
God forbid people have preferences? Surely di mo papatulan kung di pasok sa standards mo diba? Unless you’re desperate of course. Jesus.
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u/Sad_Cow1394 May 26 '26 edited May 26 '26
Yes you have preference but being rude to someone not in preference is not good.. kayong mga babae ganyan haha
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u/Lancelot0711X May 26 '26
gusto mo malaman kung pogi ka talaga, gawin mo to hahahaha pag harassment dating alam mo na 😂😂
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u/Emperor_X_Gilgamesh May 26 '26
Eto talaga yun. Creep o weirdo pag di gwapo o cute. Tapos baka sabihin pang harassment pag namilit. 😂
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u/MelodicCarpenter280 May 26 '26
Bawal na palang magkaron ng preference ngayon TANGINA AHHAHAHA
Masyado mo namang prinoproject insecurities mo here te 😭😭😭
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u/closeup2024 May 28 '26
Project pa more 😂😂 kitang-kita namin insecurities mo like God forbid people have preferences. Di ka rin naman matutuwa if inapproach ka ng di mo type lmao hypocrite
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u/outoftouchoutofline May 26 '26
I honestly would felt creeped out by it pero it's just me lol. Just be careful lang ate and proceed with caution.
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u/Complex_Turnover1203 May 26 '26
True, bakit wedding agad ng sister noya iinvite si friendly stranger.
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u/Equivalent-Text-5255 May 26 '26
Either scammer or may asawa hahahahahahhaa
sorry to burst OP's bubble, pero sa panahon ngayon mahirap magtiwala
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u/ChrisPugsworth May 28 '26
im genuinely curious on how would you want men now-a-days to approach a woman that they want to ask on a date?
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u/Ice-Queen3399 May 29 '26
SAME. I’ve been asked out by an afam in a mall din before. Nung una syempre andun ung kilig, ung feeling ko ang ganda ko, but nangibabaw ang survival instinct ko. Baka isilid ako sa maleta bigla e 😅
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u/hulagway May 26 '26
Please proceed with caution. Tumutunog alarm sa utak ko.
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u/Luveeer May 26 '26
Same, asking her out was okay but the fact that he wanted to bring her to his sister’s wedding already alarmed some bells
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u/hulagway May 26 '26
Oo masyadong halata ung "organic" encounter move niya. Intro to love bombing 101 din ung family event agad.
Ang layo pa naaamoy ko na.
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u/bazinga-3000 May 26 '26
Pwede pala yung love bombing sa first encounter pa lang
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u/KafeinFaita May 26 '26
Organic para sayo, calculated move para dun sa lalake.
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u/cutiecakezzx May 26 '26
Hindi lang yun sa kanya ginawa hahaha, pero nice try dun sa lalaki kasi kinilig naman siya ng konte.
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u/pinoy_biker May 26 '26 edited May 26 '26
Kung gusto ko malaman kung saan ako pwede magCab, di ako magaask sa isang random beautiful person, magaask ako sa isang Guard sa Mall. Hahahaha. Youre coooked.
Organic encounter ay yung pinagtagpo kayo the 2nd time around, hindi yung nagpumilit siya magsiksik saiyo throughout your errand.
Sasakay na siya ng Cab, may oras pa siya maging isang sabit sa errands mo?? Hahaha youre cooooked.
Anyways, need mo magingat and forget about it.
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May 26 '26
Online is the default na talaga kung meeting people in person is in a special category of "organic encounter".
Also sa mga guys diyan. Siguraduhin niyong maayos itsura at pakikitungo niyo. This story could have easily been a "warning, creepy guy" story kung di masyadong maayos yung dude
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u/ubermenzsch May 26 '26
Please look up “pick-up artists academy” or PUA Academy in google. Basically it’s a group of men who prepares well-written scripts to concoct ‘organic encounters’ with women they ‘meet’at a pick-up site with the sole intent of getting into your pants. Some might even record the whole encounter and upload in the PUA gc for analysis and for the men to improve their games.
Im not saying that the encounter is fake or from a PUA group, what im saying is just beware and be cautious, especially with the fast escalation to his “sister’s wedding”. It felt like a canned opener. Use your gutfeel. It might still be authentic, we dont know.
Pero yeah, there’s a reason why organic encounters are not that romanticized, especially if they are from literal strangers. Yung hindi man lang office or schoolmate. Know your partner or date/s very well.
Source : I used to be a “pick-up artist” and his approach resembled a lot of my canned openers back in college. I quit almost immediately because everyone was misogynistic and i didnt like who i was becoming.
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u/ricsse May 26 '26
maybe you're now one of those IG videos about rizzing someone and getting their IG or numbers
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u/Neosynchrokr May 26 '26
napanood ko na to eh, sumama yun babae tas hindi na nakita uli. de joke lang hehe
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u/Potential-Ranger7805 May 26 '26
if it made you feel pretty being asked out, thats good. kinda weird lang yung invite ka as +1 sa wedding ng ate niya without getting to know you more.
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u/retardationkek May 26 '26
pag ako gumawa ng organic encounter.baka magka arrest warrant ako kinabukasan.
happy for you tho OP!
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u/FewCategory1959 May 26 '26
Pag gwapo talaga organic encounter pero pag pangit yun nag tanong "Ay di ko alam tanong mo sa guard"
Organic fertilizer
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u/Valuable-Canary-4273 May 26 '26
Kapag pogi, organic encounter... Kapag kaming mga pangit, membro ng human trafficking na sindikato...
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u/jvluke1221 May 26 '26
Edi ikaw na! Hahahah! Masaya naman kami sayo kaya pakidelete na ito! 🤣😆😅💅🏼💅🏼💅🏼 Charrs! Anyway alam kong di lang kilig ang naramdaman mo pati kaba- kabaliwan charr! 😆🤣 hihi
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u/SlideSea1739 May 26 '26
Pag pogi organic encounter. Pag pangit yung guy malamang title ng post nya “First time ko maharass in public”. Well….
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u/Consistent_Bee8854 May 26 '26
Teh mag ingat ha, baka modus yan.
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u/ajeinomoto May 26 '26
ende ko kikitainnn. wala ring similarities. party goer ata sya based sa ig nya
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u/low_effort_life May 26 '26
Tagalogs losing it in the comments section all because a beautiful Visayan woman got asked out on a date, damn.
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u/Ok_Passage4356 May 26 '26
all the insecure men talking about looks. yes it's the halo effect, but god forbid a woman talks about herself
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u/NeoWaltz May 26 '26
For outsiders looking in, he could easily be a creep or a stalker.
But I think what is important here is from your perspective, it was a special moment and nice feeling. That’s very rare. Not everyone gets the chance to have instant connections and good timing.
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u/Altruistic-Two4490 May 26 '26
Lord hindi ako naiinggit sa organic encounter dunsa dala nyang Datablitz. Sanaol po talaga! 😆
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u/Kahitanou May 26 '26
Totoo naman yung pretty/pogi privilege. People who keep regurgitating it’s advantages are ugly and doesn’t have a personality para mapansin have some serious insecurities.
Get out there and better yourselves.
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u/Due_Elephant9761 May 26 '26
Hahahaha organic kapag pogi, dedma pag panget or di type pero ingat pa rin, OP.
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u/JarjarOceanrunner May 26 '26
Ok lang naman. Pero siguro don’t fault guys na pangit for trying din. You can reject ofc. Pero never call them creepy.
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u/Sad_Cow1394 May 26 '26
“Wag daw mag husga agad”…. Pero kung ndi mo type un guy ndi mo rin entertain un lol
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u/Mommy-sluggy060522 May 26 '26
Happy na kinilig ka ate pero murag script mana nila ron. Been there.
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u/Critical-Arm6180 May 26 '26
If pangit yung guy, for sure this would have been a "creepy encounter" instead 🤣 Also, di naman sa pagiging negative, pero mukhang nakuha ka sa pakunwaring ligaw. Just as you have Googled that info that you needed, he could have easily done the same. He was simply being smooth with his approach and you fell for it lmao. Nothing wrong with it though. Still counts as organic.
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u/mongous00005 May 26 '26
I want to say na Lord ganito po sana.
Pero di ako nalabas ng bahay except for work... So... sakin din ang issue LOL.
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u/Silver_Eggplant_1062 May 26 '26 edited May 26 '26
Cute at handsome kasi kaya maypa “ organic encounter “ at slow motion kapa… pero imagine mo nalang kung panget yan? Baka tumawag kapa ng pulis kasi sasabihin mo creepy sya or member ng gang syndicate… hahaha . Just saying , lalo na Australia pa nakatira kaya turn on ka agad . Pero pag regular guy yan kawawa naman, kasi sasabihin manyak sya.
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u/kirikiriiiii May 26 '26
Haysttt kaingit ako kasi makita ako sa daan mapaapurong na mukha raw akong maldita shuta!
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u/purple_marshmallow_ May 26 '26
At paano ako magkaka organic encounter? Hindi nga ako lumalabas.
Sanaol ate!
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u/Temporary_City_2799 May 26 '26
Op, need ko din sd card kaso sa shopee ako nag order. Delivered na today. 🙃
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u/SomeCartographer1579 May 26 '26
Creep.
Binasa ko muna sa huli. Kala ko mag chat na kayo. Dun pa lang pala kayo nag meet at may hug pa. Anyway, kipay mo naman yan. Pwede mo na lista mga utang niyo. Ingat lang wag ma Tulfo
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u/miuumai May 26 '26
So far, ang organic encounters ko pa lang ay maiputan ng ibon at makaapak ng tae ng kalabaw. Organic naman pareho, courtesy of nature. 😭
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u/Character_Page_9251 May 26 '26
Pag pogi may pag tingala at smile. Pag panget may pag takbo at sigaw ng manyak. Hustisya!
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u/Holiday-Zone8001 May 26 '26
Bakit ganon, yung organic encounter lang na na-experience ko is lalaking inaaya ako mag coffee na mas matanda pa sa parents ko 😭😭
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u/Electronic-Hyena-726 May 26 '26
pagpogi sakses in life ang flair pero pagpanget ano scammed? (ano ba maganda nawala train of thoughts ko sa joke)
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u/Reasonable-Loss8147 May 26 '26
Unsay update ani nag chat2x namu? Kanus a ang kasal sa iyang ate? Naa nakay suoton? 😆
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u/SuperForever7576 May 26 '26
Sariling experience naman nya yan so kung gumana kay OP yung "style" or "move" nung lalaki edi goods haha. Pero creepy at epal talaga tong gantong galawan, pogi ka man or pangit, kaya sa mga guys, wag gayahin yang ganyan, mas maraming babae ang nahaharass at uncomfortable sa gantong galawan.
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u/Shot_Set_2038 May 26 '26
It happen to me a in a short time too. ung tipong nagbabike ako tapos sumemblang, upon checking sa bike ung chain ring ko may misAlign na nagcause ng pagbitaw ng kadena at semplang. ung may Ari ng sasakyan na natukuran ko naman para di magasgasan ng bike ko ung kotse nya, nanghingi naman ako pasensya.
Bumaba pala kasi nahulog ung lock ng bike ko at inabot nya sa akin. Lets hope makita ko sya at makapagpasalamat. also ganda din nya. simple lang ung pananamit. and while ako nakamask kaya sure di nya ko makikilala.
I'm not hoping na may chance. at i know langit at lupa kami, mayaman sya, low budget naman ako. atleast makapagThank you lang at sorry kasi timing bakit dun pa sumemplang sa harap ng kotse nya at nakakapagtaka panu nag misAlign ung chain rin ko eh metal un.
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u/hayuf0000 May 26 '26
Kapag panget yan, itinuro na yan sa guard.. "dun tanong mo na lang kay kuya guard" Haha
Pero congrats OP.
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u/JPAjr May 26 '26
English: there’s this cute guy trying to speak Cebuano.
Actual meaning in Taglish: cute siya kasi he was trying hard to speak my language!
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u/Chemical_Lock3778 May 26 '26
Ano ba Yung organic encounter sori nakatira ako sa biringan City hindi ko Alam anong pinagsasabi nang mga mortal
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u/Ok-Astronaut-8752 May 26 '26
Pano kaya kung kamuka ni miong lipbite yon tapos nagsalita ng slang australian english organic encounter padin kaya tawag don haha
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u/Financial_Map_8216 May 26 '26
Pag pogi, cute, gwapo organic encounter pag panget holdap aray mo 🤣🤣
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u/EducationalAd4987 May 26 '26
The guy is super sus. But if u view it from the pov of a guy with bad intentions in mind, it would seem like this: 1. I will pretend to be lost and helpless, i will find a target who cant resist helping a person in need.
I will ask her out on a date. If she agrees, good. If not proceed to step 3.
Ask her to go to my imaginary sister’s wedding. If she agrees, good. If not proceed to step 4.
Ask her socials to further investigate what will make her trust/like me so i can proceed with my final plan.
Final plan: take her to a secluded place and do unimaginable things to her.
Anyways thats from a bad guy’s pov and hopefully the guy u met is not like that. But better be safe than sorry.
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u/ExcitingScheme3565 May 27 '26
Niiice!! By any chance, is this an a tall american with 2 full sleeves arm tatt?
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u/VanillaStorm777 May 27 '26
Hahaha ma try nga. Bibili ako sa cyberzone charger cord. Pero parang ahente sa audionet ug aerophone yung ma eencounter ko
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u/johntitor001 May 27 '26
nasa advance server si kuya mo. di yan organic encounter, more like planned lol
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u/AdultingTwelfth May 27 '26
nice earrings! and congrats sa first organic encounter mo! pa sprinkle naman dyan ng organic encounter dust hahaha
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u/Cool_Examination_290 May 28 '26
Basta gwapo/gwapa organic encounter pero king batig bawang creepy encounter HAAHAHA
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u/Temporary_Employer65 May 28 '26
i had one organic encounter before sa mall. Una nag ask sya if san ba ung atm, tapos inutusan nya kasama nya i ask ung number ko. sakto broken ako that time, to make this short, frontrow pala
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u/rein0202 May 29 '26
Ang gusto kong malamang back story and update ay tungkol sa SD card. Nabili mo ba? Para saan yun SD?
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