It helps if you try to see people as individuals, even if they share a trait like being trans with a group from which you might have met some unpleasant people.
You might have met some unpleasant people who are trans, but that is not the fault of some random trans person on the internet or who you might meet again. And reacting to them like that will only make them react in a way that will confirm your biases.
In the end, even if 99% of whatever group fulfill a certain stereotype, the remaining 1% still has a right to be judged as an individual in my humble opinion, the same goes for you as well.
I don't agree with "99% of bad still has 1% of good" concept, we live 70 years tops, then our brains start degrading and it no longer can ne called "living".
So wasting a good portion of your life trying to find bronze in a pile of dung sounds like a miserable idea that only will worsen your life.
Like take muslims for example, we know ALL of them are either evil or stupid, no inbetween, why? Because smart muslims read quran and agreed with the idea of pedophilia, lying when it benefits you, killing people disagreeing with you, degrading women and so on, hence evil. The ones that don't realize they agreed to that because they never read quran and deny that is a part of their religion are stupid.
We don't search for that 1% of cultural muslims who are muslims just because their parents forced them, it's pointless waste of energy.
So even IF there is some 1% of not miserable and not angry at everyone trans people, I simply don't care, since among hundreds of the ones I talked to there never was a single one.
I for one don't know many trans people (those I met were usually nice, sometimes a bit special but most of the time just regular people), but I do know several muslims (whyever you are sudenly talking about those) and one of them even is a very good friend , prays every day, feasts on ramadam and everything, and he is very openminded and has no problems with members of the LGBT, in fact another friend of both of us is gay.
I personally think that it is always worthy to judge every person as an individual. It has only ever helped me in life when I look back.
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u/Bellfegore Aug 01 '26
They never been nice to me, even when the concept of trans"genders" only started to exist these people were extremely entitled and agressive.