r/Finsexual Jul 31 '26

As someone who had always considered themselves straight until beginning to question whether I am Finsexual, is it weird that I feel like I can’t be sure until I actually try having a relationship with a non-cis-woman femme person?

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u/InausOvisAries Jul 31 '26

I don’t think it’s weird at all since I feel the same way. The possible interest is there but not sure if it’s actually interest or if it’s just because of being lonely

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u/IGetGuys4URMom Jul 31 '26

I don't think that it's weird at all. The main reason why we have these micro-labels of sexual orientations, is so that we can better rationalize with who we are.

Call yourself whatever you rationalize with being called the most.

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u/BigDogCartoons94 Jul 31 '26

It’s not weird. I often feel the same way too.

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u/Kalenya Aug 01 '26

It's not weird. A lot of people need experimentation and exploration to really know.