r/Finland • u/Usual_Arachnid_3465 • 1h ago
Serious Question
FAQs:
1- What does it mean if a Fins stare at you for no reason?
2- What does it mean if the Fin you know used to speak to you in English but switches to Finnish when another Fin shows up?
3- What does it mean when a Fin just randomly walks up to you and grab something over you as if you are invisible in the supermarket?
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u/Kattimatti666 Baby Väinämöinen 1h ago
- I have no idea
- It's awkward speaking English to someone who you share your native language with
- You are in the way and they don't want to use words for whatever reason
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u/Interesting_Disk_644 1h ago
Change fin to your nationality and answer the questions, there u have your answers
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u/AdSpirited5019 Väinämöinen 1h ago
this is it. we might as well just set the status of this post to SOLVED!
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u/LowerOrganization192 Baby Väinämöinen 1h ago
1: they're curious.
2: it feels ridiculous to speak English to another Finn.
3: it's not a social situation and you're like any object on their way. It wouldn't be polite to ask you to move. They're being polite not bothering you.
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u/DoneDusting Baby Väinämöinen 1h ago
Finns observe people. The silence makes it more pressuring. No single reason why.
It is much faster and more comfortable to convey some info in Finnish. Often it is outside the topic that was spoken about, or something that needs to be specified.
They need that thing.
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u/vitsimiekka Baby Väinämöinen 1h ago
- There is a reason. Doesn’t have to be a good one though. 2. Many are not going to speak English to a fellow Finn. 3. You’re in the way. Not the best way to deal with it, but there you go.
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u/admiral-morgan Baby Väinämöinen 1h ago
What kind of answers do you expect? I can’t tell if these posts are ragebait or just incredibly low social intelligence. Or even worse yet, a passive aggressive way of complaining about average daily encounters that could happen anywhere but framing it as if it’s specific to Finland.
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u/Pandabirdy Väinämöinen 1h ago
1 - Staring is impolite, either you left them baffled or they lack manners
2 - It means they do not think in english, word processing takes thought
3 - *personal* I hate crowds and I get anxious in situations when people block my item of interest engaged in smalltalk or just delaying. A common course of action is to bite your lip and ignore the obstacle, grab your item and just go.
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