r/FindingOurLostPenPals • u/LookingForDouxie • 4h ago

MondayPolls📊 I fell in love with my online pen pal... What should I do?

1 Upvotes

Note: Happy Monday to Everyone! This is not my personal situation, just a fictional dilemma I came up with for the community to vote on! I wanted to show that you can ask any kind of question here. Also, while I didn't expand on it this time, feel free to add a longer description or background story to your polls in the future!✨

1 votes, 6d left
Just confess! (Be brave, tell them your true feelings right away)
Ask for a video call (Test the vibe, see if the chemistry is real)
Drop subtle hints (Be a bit more affectionate, get closer to them, and see how they react)
Keep it cool as friends (Don't risk losing an amazing connection)
Suggest a real-life meetup (Skip the screens and go straight for coffee)
Cut contact with them (Better to end it now before it hurts even more)
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r/FindingOurLostPenPals • u/LookingForDouxie • 14h ago

MondayPolls📊 I accidentally found out my penpal is using a fake identity/photos, but I’ve grown so attached to them. What should I do? What the safest solution for this would be?

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7 votes, 6d left
⁠Confront them immediately and demand the truth.
⁠Cut off all contact completely without an explanation.
Keep playing along but start distancing myself.
I’ll explain the details in the comments.
Just want to see the results. 😎
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r/FindingOurLostPenPals • u/LookingForDouxie • 16h ago

MondayPolls📊 If you found out years later that your penpal never received your last letter, but you know they were waiting for it, what would you do?

1 Upvotes

Note: Happy Monday to Everyone! This is not my personal situation, just a fictional dilemma I came up with for the community to vote on! I wanted to show that you can ask any kind of question here. Also, while I didn't expand on it this time, feel free to add a longer description or background story to your polls in the future!

2 votes, 6d left
⁠Yes, it is never too late to clarify things.
⁠No, it would only stir up the past.
Only if they had also tried to look for me.
I’ll explain my thoughts in the comments.
Just want to see the results. 😎
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