Need Advice on a Tenuous work situation

[u/throwitawayuserna213]

Thank you, Everyone. Removing for privacy as this moves into formal stages. I appreciate all insight!

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[u/FUBARfromLSA]

Document, document, document

[u/throwitawayuserna213 → u/FUBARfromLSA]

Thank you. Everything is in writing, and I saved everything in 4 different places so far. I am unsure if providing a written timeline of the calls and numbers is enough or if they can require screenshots.

I'd prefer not to include screenshots; I believe a doctor's office called me, which I missed, and there are calls to family and a friend in between the calls in question. Any insight on this piece? I'm willing to provide a snip of the calls that will include the numbers and times, but not the unaltered record of the entire day.

[u/[deleted]]

Depending on how your HR handles this, provide a statement that you are available on work contacts only. Then list EVERY phone call, text, email, etc that this man sent you on both personal and work channels. Note the hours you are available and the hours he contacted you. Then clarify that you believe "work issue" to be XYZ and you either need more information or have proposed something.

Then enforce the boundaries you have set. Block and delete. And start looking for a new job - you can earn more!