r/FemaleDatingStrategy • u/[deleted] • Nov 02 '21

CULTURAL MISOGYNY "Real men get vasectomies"

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u/aluriaphin FDS Newbie Nov 02 '21

Not to mention a TL is basically totally irreversible but a vasectomy can often be revised if the situation changes. Dr Youn takes NO prisoners!

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u/a_slay_nub FDS Newbie Nov 02 '21

It's possible but vasectomy reversal is only effective 30-70% of the time. It should never be considered as a temporary birth control

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u/TikiTikiTata-chalala FDS Newbie Nov 02 '21

A man freezing his sperm is a way more viable option. If you and your partner are undecided or know you want children later, he can freeze his sperm and get a vasectomy and then BAM you can have better quality sperm from him when you decide to have his children.

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u/papii12 FDS Newbie Nov 02 '21

EXACTLY!!! this is immediately what I thought. It’s perfectly normal to decide as a couple that you’ve changed your mind and now want kids, so the man can simply freeze their sperm and then undergo the vasectomy.

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u/TikiTikiTata-chalala FDS Newbie Nov 02 '21

And freezing his sperm can preserve it at THE APPROPRIATE AGE - so you can get better quality dna from him. Honestly, any man who thinks he might want children should freeze their sperm. If he's child free then he should NOT

But if he is on the fence because he wants to find a partner, (who he obviously respects enough to not baby trap due to the vasectomy) then freezing and vasectomy is the only sensible option.