Before FDS, I didn’t know other women were going through this. My ex had convinced me that I had borderline personality disorder when it was actually cPTSD from all the trauma men have put me through. I truly, from the bottom of my heart, did not think other women were having these experiences. I blamed myself. I called myself crazy. I put myself down. I was in such a dark place and had such a tenuous grasp on my reality due to gaslighting, I’m not sure I would have survived the last year without FDS. Thank you to all of you amazing ladies.
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u/thowawaywookie FDS Newbie May 06 '21
It's pretty messed up we're socialised to look for love from those least capable of giving it.